What We Are Reading Today: ‘Talking As Fast as I Can’

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Updated 16 January 2026
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What We Are Reading Today: ‘Talking As Fast as I Can’

  • Graham writes the same way she talks; similar to her signature linguistic sing-song banter on the show; her witty and pun-filled rapid-fire dialogue, mostly written by the show’s creator, Amy Sherman-Palladino

Author: Lauren Graham

Did you recently rewatch “Gilmore Girls” now that the winter weather is upon us?

If you are the type who goes down the rabbit hole looking up the actors after binging a show, this book is for you. It is written by none other than the original but fictional Gilmore “girl,” Lorelai, played by actress Lauren Graham.

In her 2016 release, “Talking as Fast as I Can: From Gilmore Girls to Gilmore Girls (and Everything in Between),” Graham celebrates the show — and the character — she is best known for.

Graham writes the same way she talks; similar to her signature linguistic sing-song banter on the show; her witty and pun-filled rapid-fire dialogue, mostly written by the show’s creator, Amy Sherman-Palladino.

But this is Graham’s voice.

Like many others of said demographic, I decided to recently rewatch the show that aired between 2000 and 2007 and was revived in a four-part Netflix special a decade later. It stands the test of time. And it also does not. Both can be true.

Published just days after the 2016 Netflix special, “Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life,” the overall story in this book is fascinating.

I particularly liked the insider insights on Graham’s journey, from being born in Hawaii (seemingly random) to living part of her childhood in Japan (super kawaii, or cute). It was clear her family was one of adventurers and her zigzagging around the globe as a youngster propelled her into a space in Hollywood and the immense fame that followed her.

She does mention some of her other acting and life roles she acquired, such as a real college student in New York and waitress-waiting-to-make-it, to being a star in another hit show, “Parenthood,” which ran from 2010-2015 (also now available on Netflix).

But, let us face it, she will forever be known as Lorelai. And she seems to be fine with that.

As a young viewer, I used to identify with the character Rory, played by her daughter on the series, Alexis Bledel, who went on to become an aspiring journalist in the show and in the series. As time passed, and the older and wiser I became, I identified more with Lorelai’s mother, Emily. I sort of skipped Lorelai as being my favorite Gilmore “girl” and that is perhaps by design.

Lorelai became a single mother at 16, deciding to run away from her affluent life and “overbearing parents” and into the warm embrace of a tiny town, the fictional Stars Hollow.

At the series start, Lorelai is a stubborn and resourceful 32-year-old with the perfect child, Rory, who is 16 — the same age she was when she birthed her. But somehow, through circumstance and happenstance, Lorelai is forced to flock back to parts of her old life, bringing Rory, and all of us with her.

In 2026, it is 26 years after the original show’s premiere and a decade after the special. Now that both are on Netflix MENA, viewers young and young-at-heart can easily access the Stars Hollow-sphere.

Viewers of this aforementioned demographic will instantly recognize the iconic and airy “la la la…” and while many may not know the composer of those incidental music and vocal interludes embedded throughout the episodes, Sam Phillips, one would certainly recognize the face and voice of Lorelai.

Now you can read all about her in book form.

 


Book Review: ‘The Mastery of Love’ by Don Miguel Ruiz

Updated 22 January 2026
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Book Review: ‘The Mastery of Love’ by Don Miguel Ruiz

I picked up “The Mastery of Love” at a time when the word “love” seemed to be everywhere yet it felt strangely confusing. Between social media advice, relationship trends and constant conversations about self-worth, I found myself questioning what healthy love looks like.

Don Miguel Ruiz’s book did not offer quick answers or romantic cliches. Instead, it gently asked me to look inward, and that is where its real impact began.

What resonated with me most is Ruiz’s insistence that love starts with the self. I became aware of how often I seek validation externally, whether through relationships, family expectations or even professional success.

Ruiz’s message is simple but challenging: If you do not feel worthy on your own, no relationship can truly fill that gap. This idea stayed with me long after I closed the book, especially in moments when I noticed myself being overly critical or emotionally reactive.

The chapters on family love felt deeply personal. Ruiz explains how our early experiences shape the way we give and receive love, and I found myself reflecting on childhood patterns I had never consciously questioned.

His emphasis on forgiveness is not about excusing hurt but about freeing yourself from carrying it forward. That perspective helped me rethink certain family dynamics with more compassion, both toward others and myself.

When it comes to romantic relationships, Ruiz strips away fantasy and replaces it with responsibility and awareness. He writes about communication, trust and emotional honesty in a way that feels grounded and realistic.

What stood out was his reminder that love is not something that simply happens, but something we choose daily through our actions and words. That idea made me reflect on how often love is tested in small, everyday moments rather than dramatic ones.

Beyond personal relationships, “The Mastery of Love” also changed how I view my relationship with life itself. Ruiz encourages approaching the world with openness instead of fear, and that shift in mindset feels especially relevant in a time when negativity travels faster than empathy.

This book is not about becoming perfect in love, but about becoming more aware. For me, it served as both a mirror and a guide.

I would recommend “The Mastery of Love” to anyone willing to question their patterns, unlearn emotional habits and build relationships rooted in honesty, self-respect and compassion. It is a quiet but powerful reminder that love, in all its forms, begins within.