The Gaza twins whose whole lives have been war

Displaced Palestinian mother Iman Abdel Halim Abu Mutlaq holds her twin sons Uday and Hamza Abu Odah at their tent where they shelter, in Mawasi area, in Khan Younis in the southern Gaza Strip, September 18, 2025. (Reuters)
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Updated 06 October 2025
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The Gaza twins whose whole lives have been war

  • Since they were born on November 2, 2023, the twins have lost their home and lived in tents and on the street

GAZA: Palestinian twins Uday and Hamza Abu Odah have known nothing but war since they were born in Gaza, less than a month after the conflict began on October 7, 2023.
Their lives have been defined and encompassed by Israel’s devastating military offensive, launched in response to the deadly attack on southern Israel by the Palestinian militant group Hamas two years ago.
Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has embraced a plan by US President Donald Trump for Gaza and Hamas has partially accepted it, but there is no certainty over when or whether the plan will end the fighting.

MOTHER’S DREAMS OF A BETTER FUTURE
Since they were born on November 2, 2023, the twins have lost their home and lived in tents and on the street.
Their father was killed seeking aid, and two brothers were wounded.
They have suffered constant hunger, frequent bouts of sickness and repeated episodes of terrifying bombardment.
They now live in a crowded beach encampment to a background of almost constant crying by the people around them, the shouting of street vendors, the menacing buzz of warplanes and the crackle of gunfire in the distance.
Their mother Iman wants a different future for them: peace, food, a home and schooling.
The boys are already traumatized and slow to develop. She fears that if Israel’s assault goes on, they – and the new generation of Gazans – will be ever more scarred.
“We are afraid this war will never stop, that it has a beginning and no end,” she said.

JOY AND SORROW
The family fled their home near front lines at the start of the war and sought shelter in a crowded school. There was little fuel, and when Iman went into labor she had to walk to the hospital. The maternity wing was crammed with the wounded.
Gunfire, funeral processions and wailing from the nearby morgue mingled with the cries of newborn babies, recalled Mohammed Salem, a Reuters photographer working there that day.
“The feeling among the doctors and the patients in the ward was strange, an emotional mix of joy and sorrow,” he said.
Iman gave birth soon after arriving, her twins each weighing 3 kg (6.6 lb).
Israel had cut off all supplies into Gaza at the start of the war, and there were shortages of baby formula and other necessities such as diapers. It allowed some aid to start flowing into Gaza again weeks into the war, but aid agencies said only a fraction of what was needed came in.
“I’d go around the maternity ward to the women lying there and I’d say ‘Which of you girls has extra milk?’,” Iman said, hoping to find breastfeeding women who could donate some milk powder.
With few beds available, she had to walk back to the shelter — nearly a kilometer away — with her babies the same day, she said.

GAZA HAS BEEN DEVASTATED DURING THE WAR
The war, the latest and bloodiest episode in decades of conflict, began when Hamas gunmen burst through defenses on October 7, 2023, killing 1,200 people and seizing about 250 hostages, according to Israeli tallies.
By the day of the twins’ birth on November 2, 2023, more than 9,000 people had already been killed in Gaza, local health authorities said that day.
Israel’s military response, with the declared goal of destroying Hamas, has now lasted two years, and killed more than 67,000 Palestinians, according to local health authorities.
Nearly all residents of Gaza, a narrow, densely populated strip of land on the Mediterranean Sea, have been driven from their homes and cities have been levelled in what critics of Israel call indiscriminate attacks.
Israel says it tries to avoid killing civilians, but that Hamas hides among the civilian population and the military strikes the group wherever it emerges. Hamas denies hiding among civilians.

TWINS’ FLIGHT TO SAFETY DURING A BOMBARDMENT
During the twins’ first winter, Israeli military operations focused on Nasser Hospital near the school where the family was sheltering.
The area was surrounded, and they fled through a heavy bombardment, ending up at Mawasi, a beach area that was declared a safe zone.
Winter was hard in a tent, with temperatures dropping to a few degrees above freezing at night. There was no sewage system and little clean water nearby, and the children suffered from diarrhea.
With no diapers available, Iman cut strips of cloth that could be cleaned and reused, and attached them to plastic bags. Even so, the babies developed sores and rashes.
As 2024 progressed, it became harder to find food. The twins’ father, Ayman, was killed by Israeli forces while out buying vegetables on July 27 of that year, Iman said.
“We were hungry. There was nothing at all. When he went outside, shrapnel hit his neck and he was martyred immediately. What was his fault? He was going to get food for his children,” she said.

POOR HEALTH, SLOW DEVELOPMENT
When a truce was declared in January, Iman and the children returned to the damaged family home. Their respite was short-lived, and Israel imposed a total blockade and resumed military operations in March.
They had to flee again. Without a tent, they lived on the street next to Nasser Hospital for several weeks before they moved back to Mawasi to discover that their home had been destroyed.
Iman was not eating enough to sustain the twins with her own breastmilk and could find no formula. She made tea from herbs and dunked bread in it to feed them. Hungry and frightened, they mumbled in their sleep or woke at night, crying, she said.
Uday and Hamza were expected to start walking by May, when they turned 18 months, but while Uday started taking a few steps, Hamza was still only crawling. A doctor told Iman they had calcium deficiency, which was delaying their development.
In August, the world hunger monitor, the IPC, determined there was famine in Gaza. Israel rejected its findings.

LIFE IN THE CAMP
Now nearly two, the twins still barely walk and can speak only a few words including “mama” and the names of their siblings, Iman said.
Their eldest sister Hala, 20, spends most of the time with them — playing, helping them walk, feeding them and putting them to bed. When Iman bathes them, she uses the same bucket that she washes clothes in, the water brought across the camp in heavy plastic containers.
There is constant noise in the camp. There is also the odour of the sewage pit each family digs next to its tent and the smell of smoke from clay ovens as women bake small loaves of flat bread.
Those loaves, sometimes with a pan of vegetables, rice, pasta or lentils, are all the family has to eat.
The boys love going to the beach with their mother or siblings and sitting in the waves.
“I wish for the twins... I wish for them a happy life during this war. God willing, God will stop the war and our life will become better,” she said.


What do the leaked Assad videos tell us about the deposed Syrian regime?

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What do the leaked Assad videos tell us about the deposed Syrian regime?

  • Videos obtained by Al-Arabiya and Al-Hadath channels expose former president Bashar Assad’s inner circle, revealing toxic culture
  • Regional media coverage regard leaks as confirmation of critiques of Assad’s contempt for Syrians, cynicism toward allies

LONDON: The recent leak by Al-Arabiya of a series of videos allegedly showing Bashar Assad in candid, closed-door conversations has reopened longstanding questions about how his former regime functioned — and perhaps why Syria descended into such a devastating conflict.

Assad is shown in the Al-Arabiya leaks, prior to his Dec. 8, 2024, ouster, making contemptuous remarks about Syrians, Syria itself, Eastern Ghouta and even Russian President Vladimir Putin, while speaking privately with his late adviser Luna Al-Shibl.

While the new Syrian government of Ahmad Al-Sharaa has not verified the footage, analysts say the material is consistent with the behavior patterns of Assad’s inner circle: personalized decision-making, narrative obsession and a deep-rooted siege mentality.

Assad is shown in the Al-Arabiya leaks, prior to his Dec. 8, 2024, ouster, making contemptuous remarks about Syrians and Syria itself. (AFP)

“These videos don’t actually tell Syrians anything new — they merely reveal, with complete clarity, what people have known and lived through for decades,” Ibrahim Hamidi, editor-in-chief of Al-Majalla, who is himself from Syria, told Arab News.

“What stands out to me is the indifference and contempt he shows toward everything: his people, his cities, his allies, and the sense that power is an inheritance, not a responsibility.”

In one clip, when Al-Shibl asks him what he feels about the state of Syria, Assad says he does not only feel ashamed but “disgusted,” adding that this is “our country,” conveying revulsion rather than responsibility.

In another segment he says that when Syrians look him in the face he “loves them” yet is also “disgusted by them,” exposing a deeply cynical view of his own population.

He is also shown mocking ordinary Syrians for their spending priorities, saying they spend money on mosques even though they “cannot afford food.”

Several clips are from a tour of Eastern Ghouta and its surroundings, during or after the area’s reconquest in 2018. Assad is heard cursing Ghouta, directed at an area that had endured years of siege and bombardment.

“It showed that Assad is a weak dictator,” said Ghassan Ibrahim, a Syria expert and founder of the Global Arab Network. “He tried to present himself as a strong personality, but all these videos showed how easy it was to be manipulated by his assistant, his media officer.”

In another clip, Assad appears to mock the Russian president’s appearance, despite Moscow having been his main war-time ally.

When Al-Shibl draws his attention to how “puffy” Putin looks, Assad responds that it is “all procedures” or “all surgeries,” suggesting extensive cosmetic work.

The tone in these exchanges is casual and derisive, portraying Assad as privately belittling Putin’s looks while publicly thanking him. (AFP/File)

The tone in these exchanges is casual and derisive, portraying Assad as privately belittling Putin’s looks while publicly thanking him.

“Such remarks reflect Assad’s deep-rooted duplicity,” said Egyptian writer and political expert Hani Nasira. “The same man who publicly deferred to Putin — whose military intervention preserved Assad’s rule and offered him refuge — privately mocked him.

“These comments will likely erode whatever sympathy Putin may still have for the former Syrian leader and underscore Assad’s penchant for betrayal, even toward those who offered him sanctuary.”

Hamidi concurs: “The question now is: How will Putin respond? Especially since Bashar lives in Moscow — and Putin does not easily forgive any insult.”

The videos also capture Assad and Al-Shibl speaking dismissively about Hezbollah and pro-regime commanders.

Regional media coverage framed the Assad leaks as confirmation of long-held critiques of his contempt for Syrians and cynicism toward allies, with tone varying by outlet but broadly harsh.

Pan-Arab platforms like The New Arab and Asharq Al-Awsat foregrounded Assad’s insults toward Ghouta, Syrians and the army, highlighting his disgust at Syria, and mockery of soldiers as emblematic of an entrenched disdain for his own population.

Gulf-based media stressed his ridicule of loyalist figures and allies, using the leaks to underline his perceived disloyalty to those who fought for him and to question his past narratives of steadfastness and resistance.

Several clips are from a tour of Eastern Ghouta and its surroundings, during or after the area’s reconquest in 2018. Assad is heard cursing Ghouta, directed at an area that had endured years of siege and bombardment. (Supplied)

Syrian opposition-aligned and exile media amplified the footage as further evidence of his moral and political bankruptcy rather than a revelation, stressing that the content matched years of lived experience under his rule.

A recurring feature in the leaked clips is Assad’s habit of issuing direct orders to intelligence chiefs, senior officers and advisers, bypassing ministries and formal structures.

The informal tone — part off-the-record briefing, part reprimand — underscores the extent to which the Syrian state under Assad revolved around personal allegiance.

Assad postured publicly as a defender of the Syrian state but has since been unmasked as someone who harbors deep disdain for all around him.

In private, he mocks his loyal fighters, sneers at those who kiss his hand, and speaks of them with derision — as if unable to feel genuine empathy for their sacrifices.

“This is a man who views Syria through the lens of masters and servants, rulers and ruled,” said Nasira.

“To Assad, those who fought for him — in Syria and abroad — are nothing more than an annoyance. Speaking casually and comfortably to Al-Shibl, he reveals a condescending view of the nation, his people, and even his inner circle.”

The leaked videos stripped away the official image and exposed the toxic culture of a ruling circle that never viewed Syrians as citizens with rights but “as subjects expected to endure anything,” Hamidi said.

Assad postured publicly as a defender of the Syrian state but has since been unmasked as someone who harbors deep disdain for all around him. (AFP)

“For years, they endured hardships believing Assad was steady, serious, and above chaos. What hurts them now is seeing a completely different personality: careless, mocking, and seemingly dismissive of people’s suffering.

“This shakes the narrative they built in their minds to justify their loyalty. And when that narrative cracks, everything else becomes harder to defend.”

The footage also shows Assad fixating on media coverage, urging officials to safeguard the regime’s messaging and chastising those who, in his view, allowed “contradictory signals” to emerge.

His language mirrors longstanding regime strategy: project strength, deny missteps and attribute all instability to external interference.

Another pattern evident throughout the clips is Assad’s repeated framing of Syria’s crises as part of a coordinated foreign plot. Whether discussing political dissent, economic collapse or battlefield challenges, the theme of encirclement dominates.

The leaked comments reveal that “for Bashar Assad, there was never a true cause or message — just a regime to preserve, and a throne to protect,” Nasira said.

Despite the performative confidence, the videos reveal moments of frustration, especially when Assad chastises advisers for mismanaging situations or warns of rivalries within the security services.

The timing of the leaks is notable. Regional governments have reopened channels with Damascus, diplomatic rehabilitation is creeping forward, and the question of Syria’s postwar reconstruction looms large.

Assad is also shown mocking ordinary Syrians for their spending priorities. (AFP)

“Released on the anniversary of what pro-regime media called “Liberation Day” — marking the collapse of Assad’s rule — the timing could not have been more symbolic,” said Nasira.

For Syrians, the footage is less revelation than validation — an affirmation of what many lived through: a state defined not by institutions but by coercion, suspicion and the whims of an inner circle.

“Most Syrians no longer care about Bashar himself; they care about Syria’s future. They want to look forward, not backward,” said Hamidi.

For international observers, the videos offer one of the clearest windows yet into the operating logic of a regime that has survived sanctions, war, isolation and internal collapse.