What We Are Reading Today: ‘What I Know for Sure’

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Updated 12 April 2024
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What We Are Reading Today: ‘What I Know for Sure’

  • Oprah reveals her vulnerabilities as she shares her success stories and the challenges she has faced

Author: Oprah Winfrey

In “What I Know for Sure,” published in 2014, US talk show host and media figure Oprah Winfrey offers insights into the life lessons gained through her career and personal life. At the same time, she invites readers to reflect on their own lives, embrace authenticity, and live a meaningful life.  

One of the strengths of this book is Oprah’s ability to connect with her readers. Her writing style is warm and conversational, making readers feel like they are sitting with her over coffee, while she shares her wisdom and stories. Every chapter of the book is deep and powerful, with a thought-provoking narrative that lingers long after the final page.

Oprah reveals her vulnerabilities as she shares her success stories and the challenges she has faced. She reminds people that even during difficult times, they can grow and change their lives — keeping in mind that is known for her authenticity and desire to encourage others, and her ability to create an atmosphere of trust and connection where people can feel seen and understood.

Through her reflections, she emphasizes the importance of gratitude, mindfulness and self-care, reminding readers of life’s blessings, no matter how small or big.

She also focuses on the power of living in the moment, and encourages readers to gain a brighter perspective on life by slowing down, appreciating the beauty around them, and enjoying the simplest things.

Overall, the book offers more than just personal insights. It serves as a guide for dealing with relationships, accepting change, and finding meaning in life.

Oprah also shares valuable advice on topics such as forgiveness, letting go of fear, and embracing vulnerability; while inspiring readers to step out of their comfort zone, take risks, and pursue their passions with unwavering determination.

 


What We Are Reading Today: ‘Collaborating with the Enemy’

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Updated 19 December 2025
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What We Are Reading Today: ‘Collaborating with the Enemy’

  • This skill is certainly necessary to acquire and maintain in our increasingly globalized world

The title of the 2017 book “Collaborating with the Enemy: How to Work with People You Don’t Agree with or Like or Trust,” by Adam Kahane, is sure to catch your curiosity.

Printed by the independent, mission-driven publishing company Berrett-Koehler, the book delivers on delving into the topic.

Kahane, a director of Reos Partners — which describes itself as “an international social enterprise that helps people move forward together on their most important and intractable issues” — argues that traditional collaboration, which relies on harmony, consensus and a clear, shared plan, is often impossible to achieve in complex, polarized situations.

Instead, he proposes something called “stretch collaboration,” a framework for working with people you may not agree with, like, or even trust. 

This skill is certainly necessary to acquire and maintain in our increasingly globalized world.

Some of the practical techniques and strategies mentioned can arguably be applied beyond the workplace: in fractured families or friendships, for example.

“The problem with enemyfying is not that we never have enemies: we often face people and situations that present us with difficulties and dangers,” Kahane writes.

“Moreover, any effort we make to effect change in the world will create discomfort, resistance, and opposition. The real problem with enemyfying is that it distracts and unbalances us. We cannot avoid others whom we find challenging, so we need to focus simply on deciding, given these challenges, what we ourselves will do next.”

The book boasts a foreword by Peter Block, bestselling author of “Community and Stewardship,” who writes: “The book is really an annotation on the title. The title asks me to collaborate with people I don’t agree with. Not so difficult. But then the stakes are raised, and I am asked to collaborate with people I don’t like. This too is manageable, even common in most workplaces.

“The final ask, though, is tougher: collaborate with people I don’t trust; even people I consider enemies. To make these acts doable is the promise of the book.”

And, in a way, it does. But Kahane seems to also use this book to pat himself on the back. In parts it reads like an expanded LinkedIn testimonial to his own resume.