Indian taxi driver’s ‘dress bank’ saves poor brides from financial ruin

Nasar Tootha folds a bridal gown at his "dress bank" in Thootha village, Malappuram district in India's southern Kerala state. (Photo courtesy: Nasar Tootha)
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Updated 01 January 2022
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Indian taxi driver’s ‘dress bank’ saves poor brides from financial ruin

  • Nasar Tootha’s initiative has helped provide bridal dresses to 300 families across India
  • Wedding costs are often beyond the reach of lower-class families, forcing them into debt

NEW DELHI: Rabbia Banu was increasingly in despair as her daughter’s wedding neared and they still had no money to buy a bridal dress. It was early December, two weeks before the nuptials, that help came through an unexpected route: from a charity shop run by a taxi driver to help impoverished families like hers. 
The Indian wedding is an occasion often marked joyful and colorful days-long celebrations. But to many families it also comes as with enormous social and financial pressure that not all are able to meet. 
A bridal dress may cost as little as $40 or as much as tens of thousands of dollars, if not more. But even the cheapest ones may be too expensive for lower-class families, often forcing them into debt they will struggle to repay for years. 
The bride’s family usually bears the brunt of wedding costs. Earning their livelihood as daily wage workers in Mettupalayam, a village in southern Tamil Nadu state, Banu and her husband knew they could not afford even the most basic wedding expense such as bridal attire.
“Me and my husband, who works as a waiter in a restaurant in the village manage to earn not more than 200 bucks ($3) every day,” Banu told Arab News. “Buying a bridal dress was beyond our reach.” 
But on Dec. 13, she happily married off her daughter in a wedding gown on which she had not spent a rupee. It came from Malappuram district in neighboring Kerala state, from taxi driver Nasar Tootha who runs a charity initiative to ease the burden on those who cannot bear it. 
“Within three days I got the bridal dress without paying any money and without paying any transportation charges,” Banu said.




Nasira Banu wears a bridal dress borrowed from Nasar Tootha's "dress bank" during her wedding in Mettupalayam, in India's southern Tamil Nadu state on Dec. 13, 2021. (Photo courtesy: Rabbia Banu)

Her family is one of some 300 across India who have benefited from what Tootha calls his wedding “dress bank.” 
The 38-year-old father of four said the idea to start the initiative, which is based on donations, came to him two years ago. 
“I met many families who were struggling to afford a bridal dress for their daughters, and I thought of helping them,” he told Arab News. 
Through social media, he started asking wealthier families to contribute to the cause after their weddings. 
“We don’t use bridal dresses even once after a wedding ceremony is over, and they remain unused the whole life. I requested people to donate them.” 
At a shop he rents in Thootha village, where he lives, Tootha now has 600 gowns and says donors now reach out to him themselves to support the dress bank. The dresses are usually transported by ordinary people or bus drivers whose routes go through the destinations where the brides live. They are returned the same way. 
“Local people support me and they appreciate my charity work, and I also find pleasure in doing this,” he said, as it makes him happy to “bring smiles on the faces of new brides.” 


France’s screen siren Brigitte Bardot dies at 91

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France’s screen siren Brigitte Bardot dies at 91

  • French PM Emmanuel Macron hails the actor as a legend who 'embodied a life of freedom'
  • Film star also courted controversy, embracing far-right views in her later years
PARIS: French film sensation Brigitte Bardot, a symbol of sexual liberation in the 1950s and 1960s who reinvented herself as an animal rights defender and embraced far-right views, died on Sunday aged 91, her foundation said.
She died in her Saint-Tropez home, La Madrague, on the French Riviera.
“The Brigitte Bardot Foundation announces with immense sadness the death of its founder and president, Madame Brigitte Bardot, a world-renowned actor and singer, who chose to abandon her prestigious career to dedicate her life and energy to animal welfare and her foundation,” it said in a statement sent to AFP.
The cause of death was not given. But Bardot was briefly hospitalized in October for what her office called a “minor” procedure. Bardot at the time had lambasted “idiot” Internet users for speculation that she had died.
Tributes were immediately paid to the star who was known as “BB” in her home country, with President Emmanuel Macron calling her a “legend” of the 20th century.
Born on September 28, 1934 in Paris, Bardot was raised in a well-off traditional Catholic household. Married four times, she had one child, Nicolas-Jacques Charrier, with her second husband, actor Jacques Charrier.
Bardot became a global star after appearing in “And God created Woman” in 1956, and went on to appear in about 50 more movies before giving up acting in 1973.
She turned her back on celebrity to look after abandoned animals, saying she was “sick of being beautiful every day.”

Far-right leanings

“With her films, her voice, her dazzling glory, her initials (BB), her sorrows, her generous passion for animals, and her face that became Marianne, Brigitte Bardot embodied a life of freedom,” Macron wrote on X, referring to the Marianne image used as the female symbol of the French republic.
His tribute, though, made no reference of Bardot’s alignment with far-right views in her post-cinema years, which alienated many of her fans.
Bardot was convicted five times for hate speech, mostly about Muslims, but also the inhabitants of the French island of Reunion whom she described as “savages.”
A supporter of far-right politician Marine Le Pen, Bardot declared herself “against the Islamization of France” in a 2003 book, citing “our ancestors, our grandfathers, our fathers have for centuries given their lives to push out successive invaders.”
The head of Le Pen’s far-right National Rally party, Jordan Bardella, was among the first to pay homage.
“Today the French people have lost the Marianne they so loved,” he wrote on X, calling her an “ardent patriot.”
Le Pen, who has been barred from public office pending an appeal trial in January, also paid tribute to Bardot as “incredibly French: free, untamable, whole.”
In her final book, Mon BBcedaire (“My BB Alphabet“), published weeks before her death, Bardot fired barbs at what she described as a “dull, sad, submissive” France and at her home town of Saint-Tropez, now packed with the wealthy tourists she helped attract.
The book also contained derogatory remarks about gay and transgender people.

Saint-Tropez retreat

After retiring from cinema, Bardot withdrew to her home in the Riviera resort of Saint-Tropez where she devoted herself to fighting for animals.
Her calling apparently came when she encountered a goat on the set of her final film, “The Edifying and Joyous Story of Colinot.” To save it from being killed, she bought the animal and kept it in her hotel room.
Bardot went on to found the Brigitte Bardot Foundation in 1986, which now has 70,000 donors and around 300 employees, according to its website.
“I’m very proud of the first chapter of my life,” she told AFP in a 2024 interview ahead of her 90th birthday.
“It gave me fame, and that fame allows me to protect animals — the only cause that truly matters to me.”
She added that she lived in “silent solitude” in her home “La Madrague,” surrounded by nature and content to be “fleeing humanity.”
On the subject of death, she warned that she wanted to avoid the presence of “a crowd of idiots” at her funeral and wished for a simple wooden cross above her grave, in her garden — the same as for her animals.