Out of Mariupol: teenagers flee Russian draft in occupied Ukraine

Former residents of Mariupol, who were forced to leave their homes due to the Russian invasion take part in a meeting in central Kyiv, Ukraine. (AFP)
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Updated 20 November 2025
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Out of Mariupol: teenagers flee Russian draft in occupied Ukraine

  • Rights groups and exiled Ukrainian officials say schools across occupied Ukraine help military authorities compile registers of their students, facilitating call-ups to the Russian army

KYIV: The Russian security agents were smirking. David was panicking. As the hours-long interrogation dragged on, he worried they would send him back to occupied Mariupol and into the ranks of Russia’s army.
Having lived through three years of Russian rule in the southern port city, he and his friend Nikolai — both teenagers — were fleeing after being sent call-ups for Russian military service.
At a checkpoint on the way out, Russian agents accused them of smuggling drugs, implied they would plant evidence, and threatened them with jail if they discovered the pair were trying to go to Kyiv.
“I was sitting there and thinking that this is the end, they’re going to send us back,” 19-year-old David told AFP in an interview in the Ukrainian capital.
Their testimony shines a light on Russia’s campaign to recruit Ukrainians to fight against Kyiv — and its efforts to stop young men from leaving occupied territory.
They spoke under pseudonyms and AFP is not disclosing further details of their journey for security reasons.
Russian troops captured Mariupol in May 2022 after a bloody weeks-long siege that killed at least 22,000, according to Ukrainian city officials in exile.
Once it had been seized, David and Nikolai say their school became a hub in Moscow’s drive to recruit young soldiers.
Under a new portrait of President Vladimir Putin, the school director greeted them as “future defenders” of Russia.
“I was just like, ‘What the hell? Defenders of what?’,” David recalled.

- ‘Firm in my beliefs’ -

Rights groups and exiled Ukrainian officials say schools across occupied Ukraine help military authorities compile registers of their students, facilitating call-ups to the Russian army.
“They have one goal — that every Ukrainian child becomes a Russian soldier in the future,” Ukraine’s human rights ombudsman Dmytro Lubinets told AFP.
Open support for Kyiv, or even public shows of Ukrainian identity, are incredibly risky in Mariupol, which is tightly controlled by Russian security services.
But Nikolai and David, adolescents when the city was captured by Russia, were determined to resist.
“I was firm in my beliefs. I knew that on February 24, they came into my country, no one can convince me otherwise. I heard the explosions,” Nikolai said, referring to the start of Russia’s invasion.
They also studied the Ukrainian curriculum online in secret.
After Russia bombed a theater being used as a shelter in March 2022, Nikolai ventured into the basement to witness the devastation.
“I still remember it. Mattresses. Corpses. The smell of death — and flies,” he said.
Estimates for the death toll vary from dozens to hundreds.

- ‘Crying’ -

When the summonses arrived, the two childhood friends decided to escape.
“You won’t make me fight against the Ukrainian army — it’s my own,” Nikolai said.
Hunched in hoodies as they spoke to AFP in Kyiv, their teenage demeanour was at odds with the seriousness with which they recounted their experience.
Kyiv says the Russian army has drafted more than 46,000 Ukrainians from the occupied territories, including over 35,000 from Crimea, which Russia seized in 2014.
AFP cannot verify those figures and Russia does not publish such statistics.
Conscripts are not supposed to be deployed to fight, but Moscow has admitted that some have been by accident.
They also face intense pressure to sign full army contracts, rights groups say.
Those who evade the draft can be jailed for two years.
So David and Nikolai pooled their savings, packed, and found transport.
“I was crying because I was leaving my hometown. But I had no other choice,” David said.

- ‘Scared’ -

At a checkpoint, Russian security agents questioned them separately in a small room for around five hours.
“They began smiling, putting pressure on me, trying to make me slip up,” said David.
They took his fingerprints, asked why he had deleted photos from his phone and threatened to plant drugs on him.
If he was not really going to Russia — as he told them — he could be jailed, they said.
“Anyone would feel scared in such a situation, especially considering how old they were, how old we were,” said David.
To their surprise and relief, they were eventually let through.
But they now worry about their friends back home.
Russia is expanding its draft and tightening its system for registering Ukrainians in occupied territory.
A classmate wanted to flee with them, but did not have a passport.
To get one he would have to visit the military enlistment office, where he feared being conscripted on the spot.
“He just can’t run away,” David said.


Around the world, refugees are shut out of the US by Trump’s new policies

U.S. Chief Border Patrol Agent, Gregory Bovino talks to a detained migrant on December 5, 2025 in New Orleans, Louisiana. (AFP)
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Around the world, refugees are shut out of the US by Trump’s new policies

  • About 600,000 people were being processed to come to the US as refugees around the world when the program was halted, according to the administration

WASHINGTON: When President Donald Trump suspended the refugee program on day one of his current administration, thousands of people around the world who had been so close to a new life in America found themselves abandoned.
Many had already sold possessions or ended leases in preparation for travel. They had submitted reams of documents supporting their cases, been interviewed by US officials and in many cases already had tickets to fly to America.
As part of Trump’s crackdown on both legal and illegal migration, the Republican president has upended the decades-old refugee program that has served as a beacon for those fleeing war and persecution. In October, he resumed the program but set a historic low of refugee admissions at just 7,500 — mostly white South Africans.
A litany of new restrictions was announced after an Afghan national became the suspect in the shooting of two National Guard members last week. The Trump administration also plans a review of refugees let in during the Democratic Biden administration. Trump’s administration has cited economic and national security concerns for its policy changes.
About 600,000 people were being processed to come to the US as refugees around the world when the program was halted, according to the administration. Dozens of white South Africans have been let in this year. But only about 100 others have been admitted as a result of a lawsuit by advocates seeking to restart the refugee program, said Mevlüde Akay Alp, a lawyer arguing the case.
“It’s important that we don’t abandon those families and that we don’t abandon the thousands of people who were relying on the promise of coming here as refugees,” said Akay Alp, with the International Refugee Assistance Project.
The Associated Press spoke to three families whose lives have been thrown into disarray because of the changing policies.
A family separated by tightened restrictions
The Dawoods had waited years for the opportunity to come to the US After fleeing civil war in Syria, they settled in northern Iraq. They hoped to find a home that could provide better medical care for a daughter who had fallen from the fourth floor of the family’s apartment building.
After they were accepted as refugees to the US, son Ibrahim and his sister Ava relocated to New Haven, Connecticut, in November 2024. His parents and one of his brothers were scheduled to fly in January.
But just two days before they were to board their flight, mother Hayat Fatah fainted at a medical check and her departure was postponed. Mohammed, another sibling, didn’t want to leave his parents behind.
“I said: ‘This is it. The chance is gone.’ But I had to stay with my father and mother,” Mohammed said.
Nearly a year later, he and his parents are still waiting. Without a residency card, Mohammed can’t work or travel outside of their home in the city of Irbil. The family gets by on money sent from relatives abroad.
Mohammed had dreams for his hoped-for new life in America: starting a business or finishing his studies to become a petroleum engineer; getting married and building a family.
“Whether it was now, a year from now, two years later or four years, I will wait and hope that I will go,” he said.
In America, Ibrahim often wakes up early to tutor people online before going to his job as a math teacher at a private school, and then he takes care of his sister when he gets home. He said his mother often cries when they talk because she wishes she were in America to help care for her daughter.
Ibrahim said one solace has been the welcome he’s received in the US Volunteers have stepped in to take him and his sister to frequent doctor appointments and helped them adjust to their new lives.
“I really appreciate the kindness of the people here,” he said.
After a decade in limbo, a Chinese pastor wonders when his turn will come
Chinese Christian Lu Taizhi fled to Thailand more than a decade ago, fearing persecution for his beliefs. He’s lived in legal limbo since, waiting to be resettled in the United States.
Lu said he has long admired the US for what he calls its Christian character — a place where he feels he and his family “can seek freedom.” He said he was disappointed that people like him and his family who applied for refugee status legally face so many difficulties in going to the US
“I oppose illegal immigration. Many are fake refugees, or illegal immigrants, they’ve never faced oppression. I’m opposed to this,” Lu said. “But I hope America can accept people like us, real refugees who faced real oppression. … It’s really disappointing.”
Lu comes from a long lineage of dissent: He was born into a family branded as “hostile elements” by the Chinese Communist Party for its land ownership and ties to a competing political party. A teacher and poet, Lu grew interested in history banned by the Chinese state, penning tributes to the bloody 1989 Tiananmen crackdown on pro-democracy protests in Beijing.
In 2004, Lu was arrested after police found poems and essays he secretly published criticizing Chinese politics and the education system. After his release, Lu became a Christian and began preaching, drawing scrutiny from local authorities. Year after year, officers knocked on his door, warning him not to organize protests or publish commentary criticizing the Party.
With Chinese leader Xi Jinping’s rise to power, controls tightened. When Beijing arrested hundreds of rights lawyers in 2015, Lu took his family and fled, worried police would come for him. After traveling across Southeast Asia, Lu and his family settled in Thailand, where they applied for refugee status with the United Nations.
Eight years later, the UN notified Lu the US had accepted his application. But their first flight, in April 2024, was postponed because Lu’s sons’ passports had expired. A second, scheduled for Jan. 22, 2025, was canceled without explanation, and the most recent one, scheduled for Feb. 26, was canceled shortly after Trump’s inauguration. His application has been put on hold indefinitely, Lu said.
Today, Lu is scraping a meager living as a teacher and pastor in Northern Thailand. He’s separated from his wife and children in Bangkok, Thailand’s capital, but says he has no choice if he wants to earn money and support his family.
“I am very supportive of all of Trump’s policies because I think only President Trump can dismantle the CCP,” Lu said, using an acronym referring to the Chinese Communist Party. “So I don’t have any complaints. I just wait silently.”
‘I don’t want to lose her’
Louis arrived in the United States as a refugee in September 2024. He left his wife and two children in East Africa, hoping they could soon be reunited in the US
But that dream faded a few months later with Trump’s return to the presidency.
Louis, who insisted on being identified only by his first name out of concern that speaking publicly could complicate his case, was told in January that a request he had made to bring his family to the US had been frozen due to changes in refugee policies.
Now, the family members live thousands of miles apart without knowing when they will be reunited. His wife, Apolina, and the children, 2 and 3 years old, are in a refugee camp in Uganda. Louis is in Kentucky.
“I don’t want to lose her, and she does not want to lose me,” said Louis, who resettled in Kentucky with the help of the International Rescue Committee. “The hope that I had went slowly down. I thought that we would never meet again,” he said referring to the moment when he received the notice.
Louis and Apolina’s families applied for refugee status after fleeing war in the Democratic Republic of Congo.
Louis’ application, initiated by his parents, was approved, Apolina’s, made separately by her parents, was not. They hoped if Louis applied for family reunification in the US, that would ease the way to bring over Apolina and the two children.
Apolina thought that, as the wife of a refugee, it would take her no more than one year to reunite with her husband, who now works in an appliance factory and has already applied for permanent residency.
The separation hasn’t been easy for her and the children, who live in a tent in the refugee camp. The younger one, who was 7 months old when Louis left, cries every time he sees his father in a video call. The older one keeps asking where Louis is and when he will see him.
Apolina fears that as time drags on, the children will forget their father.
“I feel terrible because I miss my husband very much,” said Apolina in a phone interview from Uganda. “I pray for him that God enables him to be patient until we meet again.”