Egyptian mother and Saudi son reunited after more than 30 years separation

Turki Khaled Al Sunaid, 36, said he was separated from his mother, Abeer Hanafi, before he was four. (Supplied)
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Updated 15 May 2023
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Egyptian mother and Saudi son reunited after more than 30 years separation

CAIRO:  It’s the stuff movies are made of, a Saudi man finds his Egyptian mother 30 years after his father separated them when their marriage fell apart. 

Turki Khaled Al Sunaid, 36, said he was separated from his mother before he was four. 

She had returned to her country to see her family, when her husband decided to end their marriage and took their son home with him according to the website Al Arabiya.  

Since then, Sunaid has not seen his mother.

His father died when he was 16, so Sunaid moved in with his grandmother. 

When she died he moved in with an elderly relative until he got married when he was 28.

Despite the constant changes in his life, Sunaid always remained eager to find his mother. 

He asked for help from the Egyptian embassy in Riyadh, but then decided to travel to Egypt himself to find her. 

And 32 years after their separation, with the help of the Saudi embassy in Cairo Sunaid finally found his mother. 

Like a needle in a haystack, he thumbed through stacks of documents until he found papers at the embassy that referred to his parents.

The Egyptian authorities then launched a search for his mother, and after visiting several addresses found her.

“The Saudi embassy in Cairo contacted my mother, and they told her about me.”

And he said that after a few conversations they were reunited.  

Mother, Abeer Hanafi, who lives in Alexandria, said she had attempted to reach her son over the years, but his father’s surviving family had denied her access.

“I tried to reach him by calling [the father’s] family but no one would answer me. And when they did, they would tell me: We told him [Sunaid] that you are dead! They told me I cannot speak to him,” Hanafi told Al-Arabiya TV’s morning show

“I would tell them let me just hear his voice, without me saying that I’m his mother, and they would still refuse.”

Sunaid said he tried to reach his mother earlier through relatives who knew her but to no avail. It was then when he decided to seek the embassy’s assistance. 

“In the beginning I couldn't believe it, it felt like a dream, thanks to the Saudi embassy and the Saudi ambassador for helping me find my mother,” he said. 

Now, and after they were brought together, Sunaid told the show that he will try to bring his mother to Riyadh and will keep visiting her in Egypt as well.

“I will try to bring her happiness and make it up to her. I always felt that I was missing something in my life without her presence by my side,” he added.


Japan’s traditional kimonos are being repurposed in creative and sustainable ways

Updated 20 February 2026
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Japan’s traditional kimonos are being repurposed in creative and sustainable ways

  • A genuine silk kimono, which literally means ‘worn thing,’ lasts a hundred years or more
  • In a Japanese family, it’s handed down over generations like heirloom jewelry, artworks and military medals

TOKYO: The kimono, that elaborate, delicate wrap-around garment worn by geisha and samurai from centuries back, is getting a vibrant remake, appreciated these days for a virtue that’s more relevant than ever: sustainability.
A genuine silk kimono, which literally means “worn thing,” lasts a hundred years or more. In a Japanese family, it’s handed down over generations like heirloom jewelry, artworks and military medals.
It never goes out of style.
The design of the kimono and accompanying “obi” sash has remained basically the same since the 17th century Edo period depicted in Akira Kurosawa samurai movies.
But today, some people are taking a different creative approach, refashioning the traditional kimono, and also taking apart and resewing them as jackets, dresses and pants.
“I noticed that a lot of beautiful kimono is just sleeping in people’s closets. That’s such a waste,” said Mari Kubo, who heads a kimono-remake business called K’Forward, pronounced “K dash forward.”
Hers is among a recent surge in such services, which also turn old kimono into tote bags and dolls.
The most popular among Kubo’s products are “tomesode,” a type of formal kimono that is black with colorful, embroidered flowers, birds or foliage at the bottom.
She also creates matching sets, or what she calls “set-ups.” A tomesode is turned into a jacket with its long, flowing sleeves intact, and its intricate patterns placed at the center in the back. She then takes a kimono with a matching pattern to create a skirt or pants to go with the top. Sometimes, an obi is used at the collar to add a pop of color.
Kubo said many of her customers are young people who want to enjoy a kimono without the fuss.
A remade kimono at K’Forward can cost as much as 160,000 yen ($1,000) for a “furisode,” a colorful kimono with long sleeves meant for young unmarried women, while a black tomesode goes for about 25,000 yen ($160).
Reuse and recycle
What Tomoko Ohkata loves most about the products she designs using old kimonos is that she doesn’t have to live with a guilty conscience, and instead feels she is helping solve an ecological problem.
“I feel the answer was right there, being handed down from our ancestors,” she said.
Recycling venues in Japan get thousands of old kimonos a day as people find them stashed away in closets by parents and grandparents. These days, Japanese generally wear kimonos just for special occasions like weddings. Many women prefer to wear a Western-style white wedding dress rather than the kimono, or they wear both.
Many of Ohkata’s clientele are people who have found a kimono at home and want to give it new life. They care about the story behind the kimono, she added.
Her small store in downtown Tokyo displays various dolls, including a figure of an emperor paired with his wife, who are traditionally brought out for display in Japanese homes for the Girls’ Day festival every March 3. Her dolls, however, are exquisitely dressed in recycled kimonos, tailored in tiny sizes to fit the dolls. They sell for 245,000 yen ($1,600) a pair.
The art of putting on a kimono
The original old-style kimono is also getting rediscovered.
“Unlike the dress, you can arrange it,” says Nao Shimizu, who heads a school in Japan’s ancient capital of Kyoto that teaches people how to wear a kimono and how to carry oneself while wearing it.
“In half a year, you can learn how to do it all by yourself,” she said, briskly demonstrating several ways to tie the obi to express different moods, from playful to understated.
Besides its durability, said Shimizu, that versatility also makes the kimono sustainable.
Younger Japanese are taking a more relaxed view, wearing a kimono with boots, for instance, she laughed. Traditionally, kimono is worn with sandals called “zori.”
Although it requires some skill to put on a kimono in the traditional way, one can take lessons from teachers like Shimizu, like learning a musical instrument. Professional help is also available at beauty parlors, hotels and some shops.
Most Japanese might wear a kimono just a few times in their lives. But wearing one is a memorable experience.
Sumie Kaneko, a singer who plays the traditional Japanese instruments koto and shamisen, often performs wearing flashy dresses made of recycled kimonos. The idea of sustainability is deeply rooted in Japanese culture, she says, noting that the ivory and animal hide used in her musical instruments are now hard to obtain.
She calls it “the recycling of life.”
“The performer breathes new life into them,” says the New York-based Kaneko.
“In the same way, a past moment — and those patterns and colors that were once loved — can come back to life.”