Saudi national and American Catholic celebrate Ramadan together in Tennessee

Saudi national Manal Alshaks and American Catholic Susan Mascari’s families are part of a close-knit, multi-faith community in Tennessee. (Supplied)
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Saudi national and American Catholic celebrate Ramadan together in Tennessee

  • A viral TikTok reveals the mutual love and respect between a Saudi woman and her Catholic neighbors in a Tennessee community

RIYADH: On the first day of Ramadan, Manal Alshakhs, a Saudi studying in Collierville, Tennessee, opened her door to find her neighbors singing “Happy Ramadan to you,” and offering flowers, fruit and gifts.  

“I teared up, you know, how we are used to spending the first day of Ramadan at my parent’s house. I felt so happy, loved and between family. They made my year,” Alshakhs told Arab News.

Surprised and touched by the visit, Alshakhs’ daughter Hadeel recorded the occasion in a video that soon went viral, with over 4.9 million views in just two weeks.




In the viral TikTok video, Susan Mascari and her family are seen carrying gifts and singing ‘Happy Ramadan to you’ for Manal Alshaks.
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“There are no words to express my gratitude to Susan Mascari, her mom Marge, her sister Jean, her niece Merit, and our neighbor Penny for their lovely surprise,” Alshakhs said.

Alshakhs, who is originally from the village of Al-Qara in Al-Ahsa, was raised in Alkhobar. She moved to Tennessee with her children in August 2017 to complete her Ph.D. studies after receiving a scholarship from Imam Abdulrahman bin Faisal University in Dammam, where she worked as a lecturer.

She lives in a small community filled with neighbors who celebrate and embrace each other’s beliefs.

Our religion has taught us that our neighbors always come first. I never knew how important that is until I had to live here away from family and friends.

Manal Alshaks, Saudi student in the US

Mascari, who helped plan the Ramadan celebration, said that as a Catholic she shared a lot of beliefs and moral values with Muslims.

“Being kind to our neighbors and having faith in something good is important to both of us,” she said.

The story behind the video began when Alshakhs’ daughter showed up at Mascari’s house with some food. The visit reminded Mascari that it was Ramadan and she had not seen Alshakhs since earlier that week and wanted to congratulate her on a dissertation.

“I texted a couple of the neighbor ladies — my sister and mother both live in our neighborhood — and asked if they wanted to go see Manal in 30 minutes,” Mascari said. “I told them to just bring whatever they wanted. My mom was at the store and said they had some pretty roses, sister Jean had a bunch of fruit, nurse Penny made a card and had some nuts.  

“When we walked up, I said it would be funny if we started singing when they opened the door.”

When Mascari shared the video of the greeting to her TikTok account, it quickly gained wide support, especially from the Muslim community.

Alshakhs posted the video on Snapchat and Facebook to share with her friends and family, who were also forwarding her the viral video they saw on TikTok.

“After less than a day from posting it on my Snapchat, my friends and relatives in Saudi Arabia started to send me the TikTok link and how it became famous,” Alshakhs said.

“All the feedback I got was positive. People were saying how cute my neighbors are and that I live among good people. They also commented on how my neighbors respect and accept me as I am.”

She stressed the importance of building a sense of community and familiarity with those living nearby.

“Our religion has taught us that our neighbors always come first. I never knew how important that is until I had to live here away from family and friends,” she said.

“Having a community is like having a support system. A haven. Eventually, they become family. Our mental and emotional health thrive through having a community.

“I believe that we are ambassadors to our country and religion. Having an interfaith/inter-culture community, allows us to know the ‘real us.’ From my experience, we are pretty much the same.”  

Alshakhs and Mascari have been neighbors for almost six years now, and their youngest children frquently play together.

“Manal and I had a casual friendship where we would wave and say hi,” Mascari said. “When the quarantine happened in March 2020, we were asked to stay home in our part of the state. The neighbors all started to get together and go for walks around the block every night. We just started to spend more time together.”

Alshakhs said: “When COVID struck, Susan suggested a neighborhood walk and she called it ‘Sip and stroll at six, six feet apart.’  That is when we started to get to know each other better. Then we became friends and life became much easier here.”

Mascari said it was important to her to celebrate with her neighbor, and make her feel as welcome as she could in her community and family.

“Manal is visiting our country and will eventually go back to Saudi Arabia. I want her to go home with happy memories from her time here,” she said.

“I think it was so brave of her to leave behind her family and friends to pursue her education. I think to have a friend you have to be a friend.”

Alshakhs told Arab News that she feels blessed to be a part of an accepting neighborhood.

She described Mascari’s family as the “neighborhood mayors” because of their efforts to unite everyone. “They love bringing people together in a creative, simple and fun way.”

This will be Alshakhs’ final year in Tennessee with their newly created family and community, and she is overwhelmed. “I am graduating in May and it breaks my heart to leave.”

 


What Prince William’s first solo visit to Riyadh signals for UK-Saudi ties

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What Prince William’s first solo visit to Riyadh signals for UK-Saudi ties

  • Heir to the British throne arrives in Riyadh as historic royal links underpin deepening trade and defense cooperation
  • The Prince of Wales’ official visit follows decades of close ties between the House of Saud and Britain’s royal family

LONDON: Prince William’s arrival in Riyadh on Monday will be a reaffirmation of the special bond between the monarchies of Britain and Saudi Arabia that was forged in the early days of the reign of his grandmother, Queen Elizabeth II, and which has flourished ever since.

But for the 43-year-old prince, heir apparent to the British throne, his first official visit to the Kingdom will also be imbued with an element of personal poignancy.

William will be following in the footsteps of his mother, the late Diana, Princess of Wales, who visited Saudi Arabia 40 years ago during a nine-day tour of the Middle East in 1986 with her then husband, Prince Charles.

The couple had married in 1981, and Diana was just 25 years old during their first tour of the Middle East. Prince William, their first child, was three years old at the time and did not accompany his mother on the visit, although as a nine-month-old baby he had travelled with his parents to Australia and New Zealand in 1983.

Prince William (left) was present when King Charles III (right) met with Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman at Clarence House in London in March 2018. (AFP file)

William was 15 when his mother died in a car crash in Paris in August 1997.

The prince has visited the region before. His first trip was freighted with personal meaning. In June 2018 he paid a three-day visit to Israel and Palestine, meeting both Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and Mahmoud Abbas, president of the Palestinian Authority.

It was the first official visit by a senior member of Britain’s royal family to Israel and the Palestinian Territories.

Although the visit was described by Britain as strictly non-political, and William visited holy places important to all three Abrahamic faiths, to the annoyance of some Israeli politicians he made a point of publicly assuring Palestinians that they had not been forgotten by Britain, which had ruled the area from 1917 until the creation of Israel in 1948.

But there was also an element of personal pilgrimage to the trip for William. While in Jerusalem he visited the tomb of Princess Alice of Battenberg and Greece, his great-grandmother, a devout Christian who had helped Jews to evade Nazi capture during the Second World War.

After her death in 1969, Israel honored her request to be buried in Jerusalem, and William visited her burial place in a crypt in the Russian Orthodox Church of Mary Magdalene on the Mount of Olives outside Jerusalem’s Old City.

Kensington Palace describes the purpose of Prince William’s first solo visit to Saudi Arabia as “a celebration of trade, energy and investment ties.”

It is no coincidence that the visit of the prince, who served for several years as a pilot in the British Royal Air Force, coincides with the World Defense Show in Riyadh, and amid British hopes of Saudi Arabia becoming the fourth national partner in the next-generation Tempest fighter aircraft program.

Queen Elizabeth meeting with King Salman and Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman. (AFP/File Photos)

In May 2025, Saudi Defense Minister Prince Khalid bin Salman travelled to London to discuss closer cooperation with UK Defense Secretary John Healey, who described the Kingdom as “a vital partner for the UK in ensuring security and stability in the Gulf.”

However, royal watchers in the UK have attached another significance to Prince William’s visit. For Tatler, the house journal of Britain’s upper classes, for the man it describes as “one of Britain’s greatest diplomats” the visit is being seen as “another step in his preparation for the throne.”

The visit comes at a pivotal moment for the British royal family.

Queen Elizabeth II, who became queen at the age of 25 upon the death of her father, King George VI, on Feb. 6, 1952, reigned for 70 years. When she passed on Sept. 8, 2022, at the age of 96, she was succeeded by her eldest son, Prince Charles.

Upon the accession of King Charles III, Prince William, known formerly as the Duke of Cambridge, inherited his father’s previous titles as Prince of Wales and Duke of Cornwall.

But in February 2024, barely nine months after the coronation of the king, Buckingham Palace announced that Charles III had been diagnosed with an undisclosed form of cancer.

Fears about his health have persisted ever since, although in December 2025, the 77-year-old monarch revealed that “thanks to early diagnosis, effective intervention and adherence to doctors’ orders, my own schedule of cancer treatment can be reduced in the new year.”

Nevertheless, as heir apparent, all of Prince William’s duties are now designed with his future responsibilities very much in mind.

His visit this week reflects the importance placed by Britain not only on its relationship with Saudi Arabia as an important trading partner, but also on a personal connection between the two royal families that stretches back for more than a century.

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The friendship between the British and Saudi royal families dates back to 1919, when Prince Faisal, the 13-year-old third son of Abdulaziz bin Abdulrahman, the future founder and king of Saudi Arabia, became the first member of the Saudi royal family to visit Britain.

The invitation had been sent to his father, the king of Najd, who was known in the West as Ibn Saud and was recognized by the British government following the defeat of the Ottoman Empire in the First World War as the rising political force in the Arabian Peninsula.

Still grappling with the impact on his territories of the influenza epidemic of 1919, which would claim more lives globally than the First World War that had preceded it, the king chose his eldest son, Prince Turki, to represent him in England.

Tragedy, however, intervened. Turki fell victim to the epidemic and, at the last minute, Prince Faisal was appointed in his place as the symbolic head of the Saudi delegation to London.

It proved a wise choice. Although young, the Prince won over his hosts during a cordial visit that set the tone for a relationship between the two royal families that has endured ever since.

While in London, Prince Faisal visited Buckingham Palace, where he met King George V, toured the House of Commons and the House of Lords, and was taken on what must have been a somber tour of the battlefields of northern France, where more than 3.5 million Allied and German soldiers had been killed in the war that had ended only one year previously.

In June 1953, Prince Fahd, another of King Abdulaziz’s sons, represented his 78-year-old father at the coronation of Queen Elizabeth II. King Abdulaziz had only five months left to live, and on Nov. 9, 1953, would be succeeded by Crown Prince Saud, his second son.

During the reign of Queen Elizabeth II, there were no fewer than four state visits to Britain by kings of Saudi Arabia, a number matched by the heads of state of only four other countries, including the UK’s near-neighbors, France and Germany.

The first to visit was King Faisal, who as a young prince had visited England in 1919 and had succeeded King Saud in 1964. In May 1967 he arrived in London for a momentous eight-day visit, at the start of which he was honored with a full state welcome, riding through the streets of London in a horse-drawn carriage alongside Queen Elizabeth II.

King Faisal would be followed on state visits to Britain by King Khaled in 1981, King Fahd in 1987 and King Abdullah in 2007.

The royal traffic between the two kingdoms has always been two-way.

In February 1979, arriving on board the supersonic jet Concorde, Queen Elizabeth II visited Riyadh and Dhahran during a Gulf tour that also took her to Kuwait, Bahrain, Qatar, the UAE and Oman.

In Saudi Arabia, she was hosted by King Khaled and enjoyed a series of events, including a desert picnic and a state dinner at Maathar Palace in Riyadh. In return, she and her husband hosted a dinner for the Saudi royal family on board Her Majesty’s Yacht Britannia.

The relationship between the two royal families has not been limited to the great occasions of state.

The Court Circular published by Buckingham Palace reveals that between 2011 and 2021 alone various members of Britain’s royal family met with Gulf monarchs more than 200 times — equivalent to once a fortnight — and that 40 of these informal meetings were with members of the House of Saud.

In January 2015, Prince William’s father, the then Prince Charles, flew to Riyadh to pay his respects following the death of King Abdullah, while flags over royal and government buildings in London were lowered to half-mast.

In March 2018, Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman had a private audience and lunch with Queen Elizabeth II at Buckingham Palace during an official visit to the UK. During that visit he also dined with the Prince of Wales — now King Charles III — and his son, Prince William.

This week, with William’s arrival in Saudi Arabia as the Prince of Wales, the two men will resume their acquaintance, this time both as heirs apparent.

Prince William is famously unstuffy and down to earth, and very much at ease meeting members of the public, both at home and when he travels overseas.

His precise itinerary while in Saudi Arabia is unclear. For anyone who might encounter him during his visit, Buckingham Palace insists “there are no obligatory codes of behavior” when meeting a member of the royal family.

However, its advice for those who “wish to observe the traditional forms” is to address Prince William first as “Your Royal Highness” and thereafter as “Sir.”