‘Can’t believe he’s gone’: Azad Kashmir family mourns newlywed killed by cross-border shelling

The collage of images shows Ehsam Ishrat (left) showing image of his deceased brother on mobile phone outside their home in Kotehri Najam Khan village of Bagh district in Pakistan’s Azad Kashmir region on May 10, 2025, File image of 22 years old Usama Ishrat killed during cross border shelling on the early hours of May 9, 2025. (AN Photo/Social Media/File)
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Updated 13 May 2025
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‘Can’t believe he’s gone’: Azad Kashmir family mourns newlywed killed by cross-border shelling

  • Usama Ishrat, 22, was killed in district Bagh due to cross-border attacks less than two weeks after getting married
  • Border residents of Kashmir region bear the brunt of heavy gunfire whenever India-Pakistan tensions escalate 

BAGH, AZAD KASHMIR: The walls of late Usama Ishrat’s modest two-room house in Azad Kashmir are pocked with gaping mortar holes, impossible to miss for anyone visiting the family. Shards of glass still cling to a nearby window, a stark reminder of the devastation unleashed by Indian shelling last week.

Residents living near the border in the disputed Kashmir region — administered in parts by bitter rivals India and Pakistan — have long borne the brunt of cross-border fire whenever tensions escalate.

The latest flare-up, from Wednesday to Saturday, saw both sides trade drones, missiles, fighter jets and artillery fire. In just four days, May 8 to 11, at least 31 people were killed and 123 injured across various districts of Azad Kashmir, according to official figures.

Among the dead was 22-year-old Usama Ishrat, a cashier at a local store in Bagh district. The eldest of five siblings, Ishrat had been married only days earlier, on April 26 — less than two weeks before his life was cut short by shelling on Friday.

“I married him off with great joy,” a grief-stricken Shakeela Khanum, Ishrat’s mother, told Arab News. “He was married for just 13 days. With henna still on, the bride and groom got separated like this.”




Usama Ishrat’s mother Shakeela Khanum, speaks during an interview with Arab News outside his home in a border town of Bagh district, in Pakistan’s Azad Kashmir region, on May 10, 2025. (AN Photo) 

Ishrat Mehmood, the father, recalled that the attack took place at dawn on Friday, while he was standing outside his house. As mortar shells rained down, he fell and blacked out. He regained consciousness when his daughter collapsed beside him, and rushed her inside, only to find that his other two daughters had also been wounded.

That’s when he heard his daughter-in-law’s screams.

“I thought, ‘Maybe she got hit too.’ When I went there, I saw my son was drenched in blood,” he added.

Mehmood said his wounded son, bleeding from a large head injury, appeared to look at them once before passing away.

“A little bit of his brain had come out from here,” Mehmood said, gesturing toward his head. “He was martyred right there on the spot.”

Ehsam, Ishrat’s 12-year-old brother, picked up the pillow where Usama drew his final breath. His hand was immediately stained with dried blood. The pillow and its cover had already been separated. When the cover was unfolded, parts of what still appeared to carry the remnants of Ishrat’s brain matter could be seen.

“My brother’s brain…parts of it are still on this,” Ehsam said.




Top view of the house of Usama Ishrat killed during cross-border escalation in a border town of Bagh district, in Pakistan’s Azad Kashmir region, on May 10, 2025. (AN Photo)

From the next room, Ishrat’s wife could be heard sobbing. Her family had arrived to take her back as she prepared for “iddah,” the mourning period women in Islam are required to observe following the husband’s death or in the event of a divorce.

The attack had also wounded Khanum, who said a splinter had injured her leg.

“Don’t know, a fragment or something is still inside,” she said. “Today, I am feeling it is still inside. I didn’t even try to get it out.”

Two of her daughters are being treated at the Pakistan Institute of Medical Sciences (PIMS) in Islamabad.

The world breathed a sigh of relief when US President Donald Trump announced Washington had brokered a ceasefire between the two hostile neighbors on Saturday. After initial accusations of violations by both sides, the ceasefire continues to hold.

But for Ishrat’s family, the damage has been done.




Ajmal Zulfiqar (right) stands at the grave of his deceased cousin Usama Ishrat, killed during cross-border escalation in a border town of Bagh district, in Pakistan’s Azad Kashmir region, on May 10, 2025. (AN Photo)

“I want to say this to the whole world that they agreed to a ceasefire between themselves,” Ajmal Zulfiqar, his cousin, told Arab News. “But our beloved is gone. He is not going to come back.”


Imran Khan’s party seeks ‘confidence-building measures’ after government’s talks offer

Updated 03 January 2026
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Imran Khan’s party seeks ‘confidence-building measures’ after government’s talks offer

  • PTI says access to jailed founding leader essential for talks to be considered credible
  • Government says it’s ready for dialogue but nothing will happen until Khan favors the idea

ISLAMABAD: Pakistan’s jailed former prime minister Imran Khan’s party said on Saturday it would only consider the government’s offer for talks credible if it is accompanied by “concrete confidence-building measures,” such as unhindered access to its founding leader in a high-security prison in Rawalpindi.

Last month, Prime Minister Shehbaz Sharif said the government was fully prepared to hold a dialogue with Khan’s Pakistan Tehreek-e-Insaf (PTI) party to address political polarization that has deepened since the downfall of the PTI administration in a parliamentary no-confidence vote in 2022.

PTI has frequently complained about a state crackdown against its top leadership, including Khan and his wife, who are serving prison sentences in multiple cases ranging from corruption charges to inciting violence against state institutions and attacks on government properties.

Sharif’s offer for talks came amid media reports that PTI wanted a dialogue with the government, though he noted that negotiations would not be allowed to proceed on the basis of “blackmailing” or unlawful demands and would only cater to legitimate issues.

“Announcements of talks, without concrete confidence-building measures, cannot be treated as credible progress,” Azhar Leghari, PTI’s central deputy information secretary, told Arab News.

He recalled that Khan had authorized Mahmood Khan Achakzai and Allama Raja Nasir Abbas to carry forward with the dialogue process, adding that talks “require trust, and trust cannot be built at the cost of constitutional rights or democratic legitimacy.”

“For dialogue to be meaningful, it is essential that these authorized representatives are allowed regular and unhindered access to Imran Khan so that any engagement accurately reflects his views and PTI’s collective position,” he added.

Khan’s family, party and legal team have complained in the past they are stopped by the authorities from meeting the ex-PM in prison. Last month, they also raised concerns about his health, prompting the officials to allow one of his sisters to meet him, who said he was fine.

Shortly thereafter, a scathing message was posted on his social media account, criticizing the army chief. Khan’s post elicited a bitter response from the government and the military amid accusations of inciting people against state institutions.

Leghari’s comments came only a day after Rana Sanaullah, adviser to Prime Minister Sharif on political affairs, said PTI’s “second- or third-tier leadership” wanted dialogue, but nothing was going to happen until Khan favored these negotiations.

He also maintained that while the government was ready for talks, “uncertainty and delays from PTI are preventing progress.”

Meanwhile, a newly formed National Dialogue Committee of former PTI leaders told Arab News it had organized a session on Wednesday, January 7, in the federal capital that will bring together all major political parties, journalists, lawyers and representatives of civil society.

“Our goal is to bring political leaders together so that, while discussing their own issues, they can collectively seek solutions to the nation’s challenges,” Mahmood Baqi Moulvi, a Pakistani politician and member of the committee, said.

“The initiative also builds on previous efforts, including a letter to the prime minister requesting confidence-building measures to enable talks with PTI,” he added.

The National Dialogue Committee had urged the government in the letter to grant parole to jailed party figures in Lahore, including former foreign minister Shah Mahmood Qureshi and Dr. Yasmin Rashid, describing the move as vital for building trust ahead of negotiations.

It had also maintained such a step “would not only create an extremely positive, conducive, and trust-filled environment for the negotiations but would also lay a strong foundation for restoring mutual confidence among all stakeholders.”

While the government has also offered dialogue in the past, PTI leaders have conditioned participation on substantive measures, including what they describe as an end to politically motivated prosecutions and arrests, restoration of fundamental rights, respect for judicial independence and a credible roadmap toward free and fair elections.

“Reconciliation is possible, but it must be based on correcting injustices rather than managing optics,” Leghari said. “A genuine reset requires restoring respect for the Constitution, ending political victimization and allowing democratic processes to function without interference.”

Rana Sanaullah and Deputy Law Minister Barrister Aqeel Malik did not respond to requests for comment.