What We Are Reading Today: ‘A Tear and A Smile’ by Khalil Gibran

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Updated 09 May 2024
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What We Are Reading Today: ‘A Tear and A Smile’ by Khalil Gibran

Khalil Gibran’s “A Tear and A Smile” is a collection of poems and reflections first published in 1914. The book explores the contrasting aspects of life, such as joy and sorrow, pleasure and pain, as well as the complexities of human emotions.

Gibran’s compelling lyrical and philosophical style shines as he contemplates the beauty and challenges of life including love, loss and longing.

He invites readers to reflect on the intricacies of their own emotions and experiences.

The collection is divided into two sections, “A Tear” and “A Smile,” symbolizing the duality of human existence.

In “A Tear,” Gibran delves into the sorrows and struggles of life, exploring pain, loss, and the transient nature of human existence. Through his poignant and evocative language, he captures the universal experience of human suffering.

In contrast, “A Smile” focuses on the brighter aspects of life. Gibran celebrates joy, love, and the beauty found in everyday moments.

He emphasizes the importance of gratitude, kindness, and embracing life’s blessings. The poems in this section inspire hope and encourage the reader to find solace and happiness in the simple pleasures of life.

“I would not exchange the sorrows of my heart for the joys of the multitude. And I would not have the tears that sadness makes to flow from my every part turn into laughter. I would that my life remain a tear and a smile,” he writes.
 


Book Review: Things We Do Not Tell the People We Love

Updated 20 February 2026
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Book Review: Things We Do Not Tell the People We Love

It is always a pleasure to encounter a short story collection that delivers on every page, and British Muslim writer Huma Qureshi’s “Things We Do Not Tell the People We Love,” does exactly that.

Deliciously complex and devastating, the stories in this collection, published in paperback in 2022, are told mostly from the female perspective, capturing the intimate textures of everyday life, from love, loss and loneliness to the endlessly fraught relationships between mothers and daughters, friends and lovers.

Qureshi’s prose is understated yet razor-sharp, approaching her characters from close quarters with poignant precision. 

I found it particularly impressive that none of the stories in the collection fall short or leave you confused or underwhelmed, and they work together to deliver the title’s promise.

Even the stories that leave you with burning, unanswered questions feel entirely satisfying in their ambiguity.

Several pieces stand out. “Firecracker” is a melancholy study of how some friendships simply age out of existence; “Too Much” lays bare the failures of communication that so often run between mothers and daughters; “Foreign Parts,” told from a British man’s perspective as he accompanies his fiancee to Lahore, handles questions of class and hidden identity with admirable delicacy; and “The Jam Maker,” an award-winning story, builds to a genuinely thrilling twist.

Throughout, Qureshi’s characters carry South Asian and Muslim identities worn naturally, as one thread among many in the fabric of who they are. They are never reduced to stereotypes or a single defining characteristic. 

Reading this collection, I found myself thinking of early Jhumpa Lahiri, of “Interpreter of Maladies,” and that feeling of discovering a writer who seems destined to endure. 

Huma Qureshi tells the stories of our times— mundane and extraordinary in equal measure— and she tells them beautifully.