'My parents walked with me': First Pakistani to win Paralympic gold remembers the journey

Haider Ali (center) poses for picture with other runner ups during the men’s Discus Throw - F37 medal ceremony of the Tokyo 2020 Paralympic Games in Tokyo, Japan, on September 03, 2021. (Photo courtesy: PTV)
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Updated 09 September 2021
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'My parents walked with me': First Pakistani to win Paralympic gold remembers the journey

  • Hailing from a landowning family in Punjab, Ali was diagnosed with cerebral palsy at birth 
  • The Pakistani athlete achieved a 55.26m discuss throw to score the best at Tokyo Paralympics last week

RAWALPINDI: Born in a small town near Gujranwala in Pakistan’s Punjab province, Haider Ali made the dream of many Pakistanis come true by winning the first ever gold medal for his country at Tokyo Paralympics last week. He achieved a 55.26m discus throw at his fifth out of a total of six attempts to score the best distance — almost 3m ahead of Ukraine’s Mykola Zhabnyak who scored 52.43m to book the second position. 
The youngest of 10 children of a landowning family, Ali was diagnosed with cerebral palsy (CP) at birth on December 12, 1984. CP is a group of permanent movement disorders that can impact a person’s coordination, lead to compromised muscle strength and produce tremors due to abnormal development of certain parts of the brain that control our balance and posture. There is no known cure for CP, though people with it can live a rich and active life with therapy, supportive treatment and medicine. 
Despite being pampered by everyone in his family, it was not easy for Ali to grow up in a hamlet, where he spent the first 15 years of his life struggling with the debilitating ailment. 
“My childhood was very tough, and it was not easy to face challenges related to CP that the world did not understand or know about,” Ali told Arab News on Wednesday. “When I was 18, I started taking sports more seriously and things began to change for me.” 
Ali and his family shifted to the Gujranwala city and opened a plastics factory when he was 15. He started paying closer attention to sports after getting himself enrolled in college at the age of 18. 
“When I entered the college and got involved in sports, I realized it was giving me a lot of strength,” he said. “Previously, I felt quite weak. Sports activities also disciplined me and built my confidence.” 
In Gujranwala, Ali did not have access to the kind of coaching and training he eventually had as a member of the national Paralympics team. He started watching training videos on YouTube as well. 
After finishing his studies in 2005, Ali saw a news report on Paralympics and contacted authorities in Pakistan. Following a trial, he was selected to train more rigorously for competitions. 
“Whenever we get a new student, we look at their potential and Haider was brimming with it since he had already accomplished a great deal as a student,” Ali’s coach Akbar Ali Mughal told Arab News. “We knew he was going to get better with proper training.” 
The Pakistani athlete has traveled around the world and brought several medals home, since joining the training program offered by Pakistan’s National Paralympics Committee. 
He won a silver medal for long jump at the 2008 Beijing Paralympics, and a bronze for long jump at the 2016 Summer Paralympics in Rio, Brazil. 
“We have all worked very hard for 16 years here,” Mughal said. “Ali also took his camps and training very seriously, and finally managed to achieve this gold medal. It has been quite incredible.” 




Pakistan's Haider Ali competes in the men's long jump F37/38 final during the athletics competition at the London 2012 Paralympic Games at the Olympic Stadium in east London on September 5, 2012. (AFP)

Prior to his Tokyo Paralympics gold, Ali has racked up an impressive number of medals in both national and international competitions. 
“My parents, my family were very supportive of me. They were there for me, every step of the way. My father and my mother walked with me,” the athlete told Arab News. “They never stopped me from anything, neither did they pressure me to leave sports behind to study or follow a career that they wanted for me. Being in sports was a big thing for me and they saw the potential in me from the beginning.” 
Although Ali was the only one among his siblings to pursue sports, his family was not a stranger to sports activities since both his grandfather and father had been into bodybuilding. 
His father, Sadiq Ali, was a firm supporter of his son and allowed him to choose his own path. 
“None of my other kids took interest in sports like Haider did from the beginning,” Ali’s father said. “He was always a smart and good child. He was always into games while he was in school, and I always encouraged him. I never pressured him to do things beyond asking him to study hard and follow sports with passion.” 
“I am incredibly proud of my son,” he said, adding that parents should always take their role in shaping their children’s lives seriously. 
“I believe that children, all kinds of children, with or without disabilities, should never be scolded,” he said. “They should be taught with love and we should set a good example for them so that they may go on to mirror that.” 
Ali said he gradually gained confidence after the Paralympics began in Tokyo. 
“I did not think I was going to get the gold, but I felt a lot of confidence when the competition began,” he said. “I had this dream for the past 16 years that one day I was going to get a gold for my country. It was almost surreal when I won the competition!” 


Separated twice: An Afghan man’s life in Pakistan and the fear of losing home again

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Separated twice: An Afghan man’s life in Pakistan and the fear of losing home again

  • Lost as a child in Peshawar, Mohammad Raheem Khan built a life in Pakistan but remains undocumented
  • Deportation drive of ‘illegal’ foreigners exposes legal gaps around adoption, marriage, refugee status

ISLAMABAD: Mohammad Raheem Khan was five years old when he last saw his mother.

It was at the Hajji Camp bus stop in Pakistan’s northwestern city of Peshawar, more than four decades ago. His mother, an Afghan refugee fleeing war, had brought him across the Tari Mangal border in Kurram district and into Pakistan. While waiting at the crowded terminal, Khan wandered to a nearby toy shop. When he returned, she was gone.

He searched for her for two days. She never came back.

A local shopkeeper, Ali Muhammad, took pity on the child and brought him home, promising to help find his family. The temporary shelter became permanent. Khan grew up in Pakistan, adopted informally into the household, and never returned to Afghanistan.

Now 45, he lives on the outskirts of Islamabad in a modest two-room house, working as a daily wage laborer. But a nationwide deportation drive launched by Pakistan in 2023 has placed his entire life under threat.

Since November 2023, authorities have deported nearly 2 million Afghan nationals, targeting those without legal documentation. Khan, who has remained undocumented throughout his adult life, fears he may soon be among them.

“I spoke to my lawyer that I am very worried,” Khan told Arab News. “I love Pakistan.”

A FAMILY WITHOUT PAPERS

Ali Muhammad later married Khan to his daughter, Gul Mina. Together, they have six children, four daughters and two sons. Yet despite decades in Pakistan, Khan’s Afghan nationality continues to shadow the family.

Khan never held an Afghan refugee card, Afghan Citizen Card (ACC), Proof of Registration (POR), or any other formal documentation. His family assumed for decades that his informal adoption, marriage to a Pakistani citizen, and long residence would provide sufficient legal standing. They only sought legal advice when the deportation drive began threatening separation.

Without a Pakistani national identity card, his children cannot obtain Form-B, the birth registration document required for school enrolment.

“They [children] are told to get a Form-B,” Gul Mina told Arab News. “Otherwise, they will not go to school.”

Three of their daughters were forced to leave school after eighth grade.

Healthcare has also been affected. When Khan’s 13-year-old son, Ehsanullah, fractured his arm, a public hospital refused to issue a registration card without identity documents.

“Then I went to a [private clinic] in Chak Shahzad and got my treatment there,” Khan said.

The family has petitioned the Islamabad High Court to block his deportation. Lawyers say the case highlights how thousands of long-term residents fall through legal cracks created by Pakistan’s citizenship, refugee and documentation framework.

LEGAL GREY ZONE

Pakistan does not legally recognize Western-style adoption. Instead, it uses a guardianship system under the 1890 Guardians and Wards Act, aligning with Islamic principles that preserve lineage, so adopted children don’t inherit or change their family name but receive care, education and welfare through court-appointed guardianship.

“Because we don’t have a legal pathway for adoption per se, the adopted child does not get citizenship of the adopting parents automatically,” said Advocate Umer Ijaz Gillani, a legal expert on citizenship.

Years earlier, Khan’s father-in-law had offered to register him as his biological son to obtain identity documents, but Khan refused, calling the move fraudulent. Because Khan later married his father-in-law’s daughter, both he and his wife cannot legally list the same person as their father on official records, leaving them without a lawful workaround.

Marriage offers no certainty either. Pakistan’s Citizenship Act of 1951 grants citizenship to foreign women married to Pakistani men, but is silent on foreign husbands married to Pakistani women.

While higher courts have, at times, ruled in favor of such men, implementation has been inconsistent. In October 2025, the Supreme Court struck down a high court order that had directed authorities to grant citizenship to an Afghan man married to a Pakistani woman.

Even the Pakistan Origin Card (POC), a long-term residency document, remains difficult to secure.

“We have experienced that in the case of especially Afghan men who marry Pakistani women, the government authorities are often reluctant to recognize this right,” Gillani said.

According to submissions made by government officials in court, authorities have received at least 117 applications for nationality from Afghan men married to Pakistani women following directives issued by the Peshawar High Court, reflecting a broader pattern rather than isolated cases.

‘NO RELAXATION’

Officials say the deportation policy allows no exceptions.

“No relaxation has been granted by the government, including for those who’ve married to Pakistani citizens,” said Asmatullah Shah, the chief commissionerate for Afghan refugees.

“If they want to live here, they should go back and apply for a visa and then they can come here with valid documentation.”

Legal experts note that deportation would send Khan to Afghanistan despite having no known relatives there, and that returning legally would require obtaining an Afghan passport and a Pakistani visa, costs far beyond the means of a daily wage laborer.

For Khan’s mother-in-law, Husn Pari, who raised him for decades as her own son, the prospect is devastating.

“When I am not able to meet [Khan] for one day, my day does not pass,” she said. “His own mother, how much pain must she be in?”

For Khan, the fear of deportation echoes the trauma of his childhood.

“Before I was separated from my first mother,” he said. “The second time I will be separated from my second mother. This is very difficult for me.”