What We Are Reading Today: Barbarian Days: A Surfing Life, by William Finnegan

Updated 31 May 2018
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What We Are Reading Today: Barbarian Days: A Surfing Life, by William Finnegan

This week, a rare breed of thrill-seekers gathered on a tiny remote Fijian island in the South Pacific.

Among them were some of the most prominent names in big-wave surfing.

The congregation had tracked a purple blob on the swell forecasting models as it pulsed out from a fierce storm in the Southern Ocean, destined to strike a slab of coral reef known as Cloudbreak.

First the images, and then the videos, started to filter out on to social media.

Tiny figures crouched low on their surfboards, dwarfed by and encased in towering caverns of deep blue water.

For one day, the surfers caught some of the biggest waves ever surfed at Cloudbreak.

The scenes were a far cry from when William Finnegan arrived at the island in 1978, following a tip-off from a yacht that had passed by and reported a perfect surf break.

Finnegan was among the first to surf there and spent weeks camped on the nearest island, cut off from civilization and indulging in his obsession.

That obsession is the focus of his brilliant Pulitzer Prize-winning memoir “Barbarian Days: A Surfing Life.”

The book fills the reader with youthful wanderlust, explains the strange intricacies of the cult of surfing and reminds of a time when the world still held some unexplored corners.


What We Are Reading Today: ‘Collaborating with the Enemy’

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Updated 19 December 2025
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What We Are Reading Today: ‘Collaborating with the Enemy’

  • This skill is certainly necessary to acquire and maintain in our increasingly globalized world

The title of the 2017 book “Collaborating with the Enemy: How to Work with People You Don’t Agree with or Like or Trust,” by Adam Kahane, is sure to catch your curiosity.

Printed by the independent, mission-driven publishing company Berrett-Koehler, the book delivers on delving into the topic.

Kahane, a director of Reos Partners — which describes itself as “an international social enterprise that helps people move forward together on their most important and intractable issues” — argues that traditional collaboration, which relies on harmony, consensus and a clear, shared plan, is often impossible to achieve in complex, polarized situations.

Instead, he proposes something called “stretch collaboration,” a framework for working with people you may not agree with, like, or even trust. 

This skill is certainly necessary to acquire and maintain in our increasingly globalized world.

Some of the practical techniques and strategies mentioned can arguably be applied beyond the workplace: in fractured families or friendships, for example.

“The problem with enemyfying is not that we never have enemies: we often face people and situations that present us with difficulties and dangers,” Kahane writes.

“Moreover, any effort we make to effect change in the world will create discomfort, resistance, and opposition. The real problem with enemyfying is that it distracts and unbalances us. We cannot avoid others whom we find challenging, so we need to focus simply on deciding, given these challenges, what we ourselves will do next.”

The book boasts a foreword by Peter Block, bestselling author of “Community and Stewardship,” who writes: “The book is really an annotation on the title. The title asks me to collaborate with people I don’t agree with. Not so difficult. But then the stakes are raised, and I am asked to collaborate with people I don’t like. This too is manageable, even common in most workplaces.

“The final ask, though, is tougher: collaborate with people I don’t trust; even people I consider enemies. To make these acts doable is the promise of the book.”

And, in a way, it does. But Kahane seems to also use this book to pat himself on the back. In parts it reads like an expanded LinkedIn testimonial to his own resume.