Despair not of divine mercy

Updated 11 February 2016
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Despair not of divine mercy

It is a hallmark of depressed people that they give up on hope. Life for these people can seem void of color, so mundane that it is not worth living any more.
Any energy spent on the face of earth seems such a waste for them. Hence, depressed people seem to care less about putting an effort to change, or to make meaning of their existence. Many of them lose track of the whole purpose of life and extinguish into demise or wilfully end their lives.
It is my belief that the same cascade of misery that applies to an individual also applies to a community or even a nation at large.
We often refer to Islam as a way of life. I think Islam is also an art of living. This is because Islam allows us for ornamentation to give meaning to life, but within the parameters of Islam. One of the hallmarks of the religion is that Allah Almighty asked us to have faith in divine hope. It can be an ibada, and arguably, one of the noblest and most honored in the eyes of God.
It is also no surprise that the Holy Qur’an and the Seerah (life) of the Prophet (peace be upon him) have an abundance of parables and stories that are hope-enducing. The story of Yusuf for instance is a remarkable ode to hope that the Qur’an beautifully captures.
The chapter narrates the story in which Prophet Yaqub kept hope in finding his son Prophet Yusuf (peace be upon them) for a quarter of a century until Allah brought them back together. This a lesson for all of us to keep the hope in Allah. In out times of tribulations, Allah Almighty will find an exit for us with His mercy: “Despair not of the mercy of Allah ...”
During the battle of Al-Ahzab (also known as the battle of the trench) the tribe of Quraish had formed a coalition against the Muslims in Madinah. The coalition included Quraish themselves, Jewish tribes near Al-Madinah and other strong Arab tribes such as the tribe of Ghatafan. The Muslims felt at loss until they decided to adopt a military strategy. They decided to dig a trench around the city of Madinah so that their enemies might not reach them.
One very cold night as the Muslims were digging the trench, they faced a huge white rock that they were unable to break. They turned toward the Prophet (peace be upon him)asking him for advice. He then took it upon himself to break this stone with his own blessed hands.
He grabbed the sledgehammer of Salman Al-Farsi and hit the rock thrice, shattering it into pieces.
With each strike, there was a spark and with each spark, the Prophet said Allahu Akbar and gave the Muslims glad tidings. “Bismillah.” One-third of the rock was broken. He said, “Allahu Akbar! I was given the keys of Damascus. I swear by God that I see the red manors of Damascus now!” Then, he said, “Bismillah!” again and hit the rock with the sledgehammer again. One-third of the rock was broken.
The Prophet said, “Allahu Akbar! I was given the keys of Persia. I swear by God that I see the city of Madayin of the Chosroes and his white manors!” Then, he said “Bismillah!” again and hit the rock with the sledgehammer; the remaining part of the rock was broken into pieces. The Prophet said, “Allahu Akbar! I was given the keys of Yemen. I swear by God that I see the gates of Sana now!” (Narrated by Imam Ahmad in his Musnad).
After the battle of Uhud, the Muslim were exhausted and defeated as they retreated to the mountains. They had lost some of their greatest men in this battle, including the uncle of our Prophet, the brave and noble man, Hamzah. He was savagely killed and mutilated, causing the Prophet (peace be upon him)himself to cry for him on that day. Their wounds were still open and their souls were shaken and defeated. They feared that this would be the end of their nation and that the Quraish would have the upper hand afterward.
They felt ashamed that they had made the Prophet go out for war when he felt that it was not wise to do so. The Prophet’s life itself was endangered and he was beaten so savagely that the metallic sheaths of his helmet penetrated into his holy face.
In the midst of all this turmoil, Allah revealed these blessed verses from Surat Aal-Imran: “So do not weaken and do not grieve, and you will be superior if you are (true) believers. If a wound should touch you; there has already touched the (opposing) people a wound similar to it. And these days (of varying conditions) We alternate among the people so that Allah may make evident those who believe and (may) take to Himself from among you martyrs; Allah does not like the wrongdoers.” (Qur’an, 3:139-140)
A great lesson, that despite the defeat of our ummah, if we are true believers, we should not feel demoralized and we are to hold onto the rope of hope in Allah.
In the Musnad of Imam Ahmad, there is a story that people came complaining to the Prophet that a youth was a hypocrite because he prays all night (or prays qiyam at night), and when he wakes up in the morning, steals from people.
It seems that the companions felt uncomfortable that someone with such a great honorable deed such as qiyam,would still live a double life and would commit a major sin. The Prophet (peace be upon him) planted the seeds of hope for people like this young man when he said: “His prayer will eventually forbid him from committing this sin.”
In this story, there is a great lesson that we are all human and that we have our shortcomings. We sin in the day and during the night, in private and in public, so much so that some of us have lost hope in ourselves that we will ever repent to Allah. Just like this young man, we all have hope that one day we will be granted the precious gift of repentance and steadfastness.
This is a great lesson that we should never lose hope that Allah will accept us, that His mercy is greater than our sins.
We need hope to live our spiritual life and to make sense of the challenges that face us on the road to Allah. We need hope as an Ummah when we witness what is happening in Syria and the rest of the Muslim world, we need hope as a community when we feel estranged and alienated on the road of improving or surroundings and making da’wah, we need hope as individuals to keep the energy for reformation alive, we need to learn how to instill hope in our children and in people around us, and we need hope when treating our own selves.
We should never lose hope on our Ummah, never lose hope on the validity and uniqueness of our Islam or our Muslim identity.
If we lose hope, we will get depressed as individuals and as a nation, and we will not be able to achieve the role that Allah has allocated to us in the Holy Qur’an, a mercy to mankind, like our Prophet was: “And thus we have made you a just community that you will be witnesses over the people and the Messenger will be a witness over you.” (Qur’an, 2:143)
“You are the best nation produced (as an example) for mankind. You enjoin what is right and forbid what is wrong and believe in Allah ...” (Qur’an, 3:110)

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The beauty of prayer in Islam

Updated 23 September 2016
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The beauty of prayer in Islam

GOING deeper into our spiritual state during prayers (salah) requires that we have a presence of heart and are mindful of the words being said during the prayers.
Our prayer will feel shorter, yet when we look at how much time we actually spent, we will think, “Did I just spend 10 minutes?” or even 15 and 20 minutes.
A person who began applying this said he wished the prayer would never end.
A feeling that Ibn Al-Qayyim describes as “what the competitors compete for… it is nourishment for the soul and the delight of the eyes,” and he also said, “If this feeling leaves the heart, it is as though it is a body with no soul.”

The love of Allah
Some people’s relationship with Allah is limited to following orders and leaving prohibitions, so that one does not enter hell. Of course, we must follow orders and leave prohibitions, but it needs to be done out of more than fear and hope; it should also be done out of love for Allah. Allah says in the Qur’an: “… Allah will bring forth [in place of them] a people He will love and who will love Him.” (Qur’an, 5:54)
We often find that when a lover meets the beloved, hearts are stirred and there is warmth in that meeting. Yet when we meet Allah, there is not even an ounce of this same feeling. Allah says in the Qur’an: “And (yet) among the people are those who take other than Allah as equals (to Him). They love them as they (should) love Allah. But those who believe are stronger in love for Allah.” (Qur’an, 2:165)
And those who believe are stronger in love for Allah. There should be a feeling of longing, and when we raise our hands to start the prayer, warmth and love should fill our hearts because we are now meeting with Allah. A dua of the Prophet (peace be upon him): “O Allah, I ask You for the longing to meet You” (An-Nisa’i, Al-Hakim)
Ibn Al-Qayyim says in his book Tareeq Al-Hijratain that Allah loves His Messengers and His believing servants, and they love Him and nothing is more beloved to them than Him. The love of one’s parents has a certain type of sweetness, as does the love of one’s children, but the love of Allah far supersedes any of that. The Prophet, peace be upon him, said: “Any person who combines these three qualities will experience the sweetness of faith: 1) that God and His messenger are dearer to him than anything else; 2) that his love of others is purely for God’s sake; and 3) that he hates to relapse into disbelief as much as he hates to be thrown in the fire.” (Bukhari)
Thus, the first thing he mentioned was: “… that God and His messenger are more beloved to him than anything else…”
Ibn Al-Qayyim says: “Since ‘there is nothing like unto Him’ (Qur’an, 42:11), there is nothing like experiencing love for Him.”
If you feel this love for Him, it will be a feeling so intense, so sweet, that you would wish the prayer would never ever end.
Do you truly want to feel this love? Then ask yourself: ‘why do you or should you love Allah?’
Know that you love people for one (or all, in varying degrees) of three reasons: For their beauty, because of their exalted character or/and because they have done good to you. And know that Allah combines all of these three to the utmost degree.

All-embracing beauty
We’ve all been touched by beauty. It is almost fitrah (natural disposition) to love what is beautiful. Ali ibn Abi Talib, may Allah be pleased with him, said about the Prophet, peace be upon him, that it was “as if the sun is shining from his face.” Jabir (may God be pleased with him) said: “The Messenger of Allah was more handsome, beautiful, and radiant than the full moon” (Tirmidhi)
Allah made all His Prophets have a certain beauty so that people would have a natural inclination toward them.
And beauty is more than what is in the face, because beauty is in all of creation and somehow has the ability to take our breath away and give us peace simultaneously. The glimmer of the crescent moon on a calm night, the intensity of a waterfall as the water drops for thousands of feet, the sunset by the sea … certain scenes of natural unspoiled beauty stirs something in us. As Allah is the One Who made it beautiful, so what of Allah’s beauty?
Ibn Al-Qayyim said: “And it is enough to realize Allah’s Beauty when we know that every internal and external beauty in this life and the next are created by Him, so what of the beauty of their Creator?”
This fitrah for loving what is beautiful is because Allah is beautiful. One of His Names is Al-Jameel (the Most Beautiful). Ibn Al-Qayyim states that the beauty of Allah is something that a person cannot imagine and only He knows it. There is nothing of it in creation save for glimpses.
Ibn Al-Qayyim says if all of creation were the most beautiful they could be (so let’s imagine, ever single human being looked as beautiful as Yusuf, peace be upon him, and the whole world was like Paradise), and all of them combined from the beginning of time until the Day of Judgment, they would not even be like a ray in comparison to the sun when compared to Allah. Allah’s beauty is so intense that we will not even be able to take it in this life. In the Qur’an, Allah describes Musa’s (peace be upon him) request: “And when Moses arrived at Our appointed time and his Lord spoke to him, he said, ‘My Lord, show me (Yourself) that I may look at You.’ (Allah) said: ‘You will not see Me but look at the mountain; if it should remain in place, then you will see Me.’ But when his Lord appeared to the mountain He rendered it level, and Moses fell unconscious.” (Qur’an, 7:143)
Even the mountain could not bear the beauty of Allah and crumbled, and when Musa, peace be upon him, saw this (he did not even see Allah), he fell unconscious. This is why on the Day of Judgment it is Allah’s light that will shine on everything. We talk about breathtaking beauty, but we have yet to experience Allah’s beauty. While things in this world can be beautiful or majestic or if they combine both they are finite, true majesty and beauty are for Allah: “And there will remain the Face of your Lord, Owner of Majesty and Honor.” (Qur’an, 55:27)
Keeping all of this in mind, the Prophet, peace be upon him, said: “Allah directs His Face toward the face of His servant who is praying, as long as he does not turn away” (Tirmidhi).
Remember this in your prayer, and ask Allah to allow you the joy of seeing Him in Paradise.