What We Are Reading Today: Why Didn’t You Tell Me?

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Updated 16 July 2022
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What We Are Reading Today: Why Didn’t You Tell Me?

Author: Carmen Rita Wong

Carmen Rita Wong’s ‘Why Didn’t You Tell Me?’ is a sharp, turbulent memoir.
It is an exploration of identity and intergenerational trauma that unfolds as she endures adversity and tragedy, and wades through decades’ thick family secrets that leave her questioning who she really is.
Why Didn’t You Tell Me? “is a riveting and poignant story of Wong’s experience of race and culture in America and how they shape who we think we are,” said a review in goodreads.com.
A former national television host, advice columnist, and professor, Wong searches to understand who she really is as she discovers her mother’s hidden history, facing the revelations that seep out.
This is the story of the author’s life as a young girl growing up in both New York and New Hampshire as a multi-racial woman of color.

 


What We Are Reading Today: ‘Talking As Fast as I Can’

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Updated 16 January 2026
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What We Are Reading Today: ‘Talking As Fast as I Can’

  • Graham writes the same way she talks; similar to her signature linguistic sing-song banter on the show; her witty and pun-filled rapid-fire dialogue, mostly written by the show’s creator, Amy Sherman-Palladino

Author: Lauren Graham

Did you recently rewatch “Gilmore Girls” now that the winter weather is upon us?

If you are the type who goes down the rabbit hole looking up the actors after binging a show, this book is for you. It is written by none other than the original but fictional Gilmore “girl,” Lorelai, played by actress Lauren Graham.

In her 2016 release, “Talking as Fast as I Can: From Gilmore Girls to Gilmore Girls (and Everything in Between),” Graham celebrates the show — and the character — she is best known for.

Graham writes the same way she talks; similar to her signature linguistic sing-song banter on the show; her witty and pun-filled rapid-fire dialogue, mostly written by the show’s creator, Amy Sherman-Palladino.

But this is Graham’s voice.

Like many others of said demographic, I decided to recently rewatch the show that aired between 2000 and 2007 and was revived in a four-part Netflix special a decade later. It stands the test of time. And it also does not. Both can be true.

Published just days after the 2016 Netflix special, “Gilmore Girls: A Year in the Life,” the overall story in this book is fascinating.

I particularly liked the insider insights on Graham’s journey, from being born in Hawaii (seemingly random) to living part of her childhood in Japan (super kawaii, or cute). It was clear her family was one of adventurers and her zigzagging around the globe as a youngster propelled her into a space in Hollywood and the immense fame that followed her.

She does mention some of her other acting and life roles she acquired, such as a real college student in New York and waitress-waiting-to-make-it, to being a star in another hit show, “Parenthood,” which ran from 2010-2015 (also now available on Netflix).

But, let us face it, she will forever be known as Lorelai. And she seems to be fine with that.

As a young viewer, I used to identify with the character Rory, played by her daughter on the series, Alexis Bledel, who went on to become an aspiring journalist in the show and in the series. As time passed, and the older and wiser I became, I identified more with Lorelai’s mother, Emily. I sort of skipped Lorelai as being my favorite Gilmore “girl” and that is perhaps by design.

Lorelai became a single mother at 16, deciding to run away from her affluent life and “overbearing parents” and into the warm embrace of a tiny town, the fictional Stars Hollow.

At the series start, Lorelai is a stubborn and resourceful 32-year-old with the perfect child, Rory, who is 16 — the same age she was when she birthed her. But somehow, through circumstance and happenstance, Lorelai is forced to flock back to parts of her old life, bringing Rory, and all of us with her.

In 2026, it is 26 years after the original show’s premiere and a decade after the special. Now that both are on Netflix MENA, viewers young and young-at-heart can easily access the Stars Hollow-sphere.

Viewers of this aforementioned demographic will instantly recognize the iconic and airy “la la la…” and while many may not know the composer of those incidental music and vocal interludes embedded throughout the episodes, Sam Phillips, one would certainly recognize the face and voice of Lorelai.

Now you can read all about her in book form.