Pakistani girl asked 'lover' to murder her to avoid 'honor killing' by family — police

A Pakistani police officer stands guard to cordon off the grave of a woman who was allegedly killed by her family members in an apparent "honor" killing in the neighborhood of Mangowal, near Gujrat, Pakistan, on April 25, 2018. (AP/File)
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Updated 21 February 2022
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Pakistani girl asked 'lover' to murder her to avoid 'honor killing' by family — police

  • Police say suspect confessed during investigation he had strangled 18-year-old girl to death on her instructions
  • Police say they suspect he no longer had the intention to marry the girl but didn’t want to be exposed before her family

KARACHI: A teenage girl who eloped with a man in Pakistan's southern Sindh province had asked him to strangle her to death to avoid being killed for ‘honour’ by her family, police said the suspect had told them during investigations, with the brother of the girl saying the family would pursue justice for his sister.

Hundreds of women are murdered each year in Pakistan, mostly by family members, in so-called “honour killings” that punish women for eloping, fraternizing with men or other infractions in defiance of the conservative values that govern women’s modesty in the country.

According to the Human Rights Commission of Pakistan (HRCP), 430 cases of honour killing were reported in 2020, involving 148 male and 363 female victims. Of these cases, 215 victims, 136 of them female, belonged to the southern Sindh province.

But in a bizarre twist from most honour killing cases, in this one, the suspect told police he committed the murder on the instructions of her lover and because she wanted to escape near-certain death at the hands of her family.

Nagrena Chandio, 18, eloped with a close relative, Mehtab Chandio, on Januray 19, and left for Balochistan’s Sohrab city with the intention of marriage, Senior Superintendent of Police Irfan Samo told Arab News, saying the couple returned after a few days to Seeta town in Sindh's Dadu district, where the suspect strangled the girl, as per his confession before police.

Nagrena's family had registered a missing person complaint on January 21 while police said they found her body on the night between January 24 and 25. Last Saturday, February 19, police arrested Mehtab Chandio.

Mustafa Pathan, the officer investigating the case, said the girl had eloped with Mehtab with the intent to marry him but after the couple ran out of the little money they had, they returned to their hometown. There, the girl said she would not go home to her family and asked Mehtab to kill her instead.

“She thought she would face certain death at home, so she preferred to be killed by her lover,” the officer said, quoting Mehtab’s version of events revealed during investigation.

The official said he believed Mehtab killed the girl because he did not intend to marry her and feared she would identify him before the family if she returned home alive.

Babul Khan, the victim's brother, said his sister had been engaged to another man but ran away with Mehtab who had now confessed to killing her.  

Khan’s family is linked to Mehtab’s by marriage, his elder sister being the wife of the suspect's brother.

“Mehtab’s family neither asked for the hand of our second sister [Nagrena for marriage to Mehtab], nor could we accept the proposal as she was already engaged to another man,” Khan told Arab News, adding that his family had decided to "take the culprit to task."

Mehnaz Rehman, a rights activist, said the incident highlighted how little choice women had in an honour-based society.

"In this case, the girl knew that she would be killed anyway," Rehman said. "We must fight for the freedom of choice.”


Pakistan graft survey echoes IMF warning on weak governance, public dissatisfaction

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Pakistan graft survey echoes IMF warning on weak governance, public dissatisfaction

  • Most Pakistanis say they were not compelled to pay bribes, but distrust remains high in anti-corruption efforts
  • PM Shahbaz Sharif calls report a recognition of his government’s efforts to fight corruption, promote transparency

ISLAMABAD: Governance weaknesses flagged by the International Monetary Fund (IMF) appeared to align with findings from Pakistan’s latest corruption perception survey, analysts said on Tuesday, as Transparency International Pakistan (TI-Pakistan) reported widespread public dissatisfaction with the state’s accountability mechanisms.

TI-Pakistan’s National Corruption Perception Survey (NCPS) 2025 found that 58 percent of respondents fully or partly agreed that the IMF program and Pakistan’s removal from the Financial Action Task Force’s grey list had helped stabilize the economy.

“Encouragingly, a majority of Pakistanis (66 percent) nationwide reported that they did not experience a situation where they felt compelled to offer a bribe to access any public service,” said the survey. “Sindh recorded the highest proportion of respondents paying a bribe to access public service (46 percent), followed by Punjab (39 percent), Balochistan (31 percent) and Khyber Pakhtunkhwa (20 percent).”

In this context, 77 percent said they were unhappy with the government’s anti-corruption performance.

However, Prime Minister Muhammad Shehbaz Sharif expressed satisfaction over the report in a statement, saying “a large majority of citizens said they did not face corruption during our government’s tenure” which is “recognition of our efforts to fight corruption and promote transparency.”

“It is highly encouraging that most citizens considered the government’s measures for economic recovery to be successful,” he said.

“We worked on a priority basis to establish a system grounded in merit and transparency across all sectors of government, and we are continuing to build on these efforts,” he added.

Economist and former finance ministry adviser Dr. Khaqan Najeeb said the survey highlighted the same structural weaknesses identified by the IMF’s Governance and Corruption Diagnostic, published on Nov. 20 at the international lender’s request, which said Pakistan suffers from “persistent and widespread corruption vulnerabilities” rooted in a state-dominated economy, weak regulatory capacity, and inconsistent enforcement.

“Transparency International Pakistan’s National Corruption Perception Survey does suggest progress in reducing low-level, day-to-day bribery, but it does not contradict the IMF’s governance findings,” he told Arab News. “Instead, it highlights that Pakistan’s real challenge lies in deeper, systemic weaknesses in transparency, oversight and institutional accountability.”

“While public perception has improved, it does not mean the underlying governance issues identified by the IMF have been resolved,” he argued, adding that addressing those will require sustained reforms, stronger institutions and consistent enforcement.

Political analyst Mazhar Abbas said the report was going to be used by the government to bolster its economic narrative.

“Survey reports have usually been tilted in favor of the government, and this report is no different,” he told Arab News. “The government will certainly use it to support its narrative of an improved economy, as the report states that a majority of respondents partially or fully agree that the government has successfully stabilized the economy through the IMF agreement and by exiting the FATF grey list.”

Abbas added it was difficult to either challenge or endorse the findings of the report without knowing who was interviewed and who the respondents were.

“The police have consistently been at the top of Transparency International’s corruption perception reports, whereas there may be other organizations where the frequency and volume of corruption are even higher,” he continued, adding that since the police are a public-dealing organization and consistently top the corruption perception index, it suggested that most respondents are from the general public, who may either lack access to or knowledge of corrupt practices in other organizations.

Islamabad-based social-sector development consultant Muhammad Qasim Jan said the survey should be seen as a barometer of public sentiment rather than an empirical measure of corruption.

“The National Corruption Perception Survey 2025 offers a sobering snapshot of how Pakistanis view corruption and accountability,” he told Arab News. “At the same time, the absence of basic methodological detail means the results should be interpreted with caution, especially when citing national percentages or making population-wide claims.”