Lebanese beauty in Miss Universe Canada contest

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Twenty-one-year old Lebanese-Canadian beauty Rita Houkayem is up against 47 contestants at this year’s Miss Universe Canada. (AN photo)
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Twenty-one-year old Lebanese-Canadian beauty Rita Houkayem is up against 47 contestants at this year’s Miss Universe Canada. (AN photo)
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Twenty-one-year old Lebanese-Canadian beauty Rita Houkayem is up against 47 contestants at this year’s Miss Universe Canada. (AN photo)
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Twenty-one-year old Lebanese-Canadian beauty Rita Houkayem is up against 47 contestants at this year’s Miss Universe Canada. (AN photo)
Updated 04 August 2018
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Lebanese beauty in Miss Universe Canada contest

JEDDAH: Twenty-one-year old Lebanese-Canadian beauty Rita Houkayem, who speaks three languages and runs her own driveway business, is up against 47 contestants at this year’s Miss Universe Canada.
The event will take place on Aug. 18, the winner of which will represent Canada in the Miss Universe 2018 finals in Bangkok at the end of this year.
Houkayem is a graduating student from the University of Toronto, double-majoring in international development studies and French and minoring in political science. Houkayem, who speaks English, French and Arabic, wants to work with children in developing countries, focusing on empowering young girls through education. Much like in her current job, at Oasis, a Toronto-based women’s center, where she is helping to organize an event for the International Day of the Girl that will take place in October.
Houkayem said growing up in an immigrant family in a multicultural country helped her to gain an appreciation for foreign culture, food, traditions and lifestyle.
“My childhood was filled with nothing but love and support from my parents and my younger brother,” she said in an interview on the Miss Universe Canada website. “Coming from a war-torn country at the time, they did their very best to expose us to a peaceful lifestyle. They raised us to be happy kids, to be respectful and kind individuals, and to appreciate everything life has to offer. They made every event, whether it was our birthday, Christmas or Easter, very special and exposed us to new places and people which made our lives more exciting.”
Houkayem is very involved as a volunteer, spending her time in schools, daycares and homes for the elderly. She tutors and mentors young girls and has spent the last three summers as a camp executive for her church.
“I am a person who loves to smile and make everyone around me smile. I strive to be an eternal optimist,” she said.
In 2009, she was awarded the Mayor’s Medal in 2009 for showing such leadership. She has many interests, which include dancing, singing, traveling, camping and hot yoga. “I enjoy watching plays and movies, dining out, trying new experiences and most importantly, spending time with my family and friends,” she added.
She considers her mother to be the most influential person in her life, in addition to her cousin. “She has inspired me to use my positive attitude and my ambitious and passionate personality to pursue my dreams,” she said.
Houkayem said her proudest personal accomplishment, other than participating in this pageant, is her own driveway-sealing business, which has proven to be successful.
“Although I do not have a background in business or in landscaping, I wanted to prove to myself that I can reach any goal I have. Once I have an idea in my head, no matter how far-fetched it may seem, I will not stop at anything.”
In the future, she hopes to create a non-profit organization that will work toward advancing children’s and women’s rights. “I want to work with people in need, inspire them and have them inspire me. I truly want to make a positive impact on people’s lives.”
People can vote for Houkayem on Miss Universe Canada’s website to help her win the pageant and the People’s Choice Award (http://missuniversecanada.ca/vote-2018/).


How TV shows like ‘Mo’ and ‘Muslim Matchmaker’ allow Arab and Muslim Americans to tell their stories

(Clockwise) Hoda Abrahim, founder and CEO of, "Love, Inshallah,", Actor Ramy Youssef, Mohammed Amer and Yasmin Elhady. (AP)
Updated 28 December 2025
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How TV shows like ‘Mo’ and ‘Muslim Matchmaker’ allow Arab and Muslim Americans to tell their stories

  • In addition to “Mo,” shows like “Muslim Matchmaker,” hosted by matchmakers Hoda Abrahim and Yasmin Elhady, connect Muslim Americans from around the country with the goal of finding a spouse

COLUMBUS, Ohio: Whether it’s stand-up comedy specials or a dramedy series, when Muslim American Mo Amer sets out to create, he writes what he knows.
The comedian, writer and actor of Palestinian descent has received critical acclaim for it, too. The second season of Amer’s “Mo” documents Mo Najjar and his family’s tumultuous journey reaching asylum in the United States as Palestinian refugees.
Amer’s show is part of an ongoing wave of television from Arab American and Muslim American creators who are telling nuanced, complicated stories about identity without falling into stereotypes that Western media has historically portrayed.
“Whenever you want to make a grounded show that feels very real and authentic to the story and their cultural background, you write to that,” Amer told The Associated Press. “And once you do that, it just feels very natural, and when you accomplish that, other people can see themselves very easily.”
At the start of its second season, viewers find Najjar running a falafel taco stand in Mexico after he was locked in a van transporting stolen olive trees across the US-Mexico border. Najjar was trying to retrieve the olive trees and return them to the farm where he, his mother and brother are attempting to build an olive oil business.
Both seasons of “Mo” were smash hits on Netflix. The first season was awarded a Peabody. His third comedy special on Netflix, “Mo Amer: Wild World,” premiered in October.
Narratively, the second season ends before the Hamas attack in Israel on Oct. 7, 2023, but the series itself doesn’t shy away from addressing Israeli-Palestinian relations, the ongoing conflict in Gaza or what it’s like for asylum seekers detained in US Immigration and Customs Enforcement detention centers.
In addition to “Mo,” shows like “Muslim Matchmaker,” hosted by matchmakers Hoda Abrahim and Yasmin Elhady, connect Muslim Americans from around the country with the goal of finding a spouse.
The animated series, “#1 Happy Family USA,” created by Ramy Youssef, who worked with Amer to create “Mo,” and Pam Brady, follows an Egyptian American Muslim family navigating life in New Jersey after the 9/11 terrorists attack in New York.
Current events have an influence
The key to understanding the ways in which Arab or Muslim Americans have been represented on screen is to be aware of the “historical, political, cultural and social contexts” in which the content was created, said Sahar Mohamed Khamis, a University of Maryland professor who studies Arab and Muslim representation in media.
After the 9/11 attacks, Arabs and Muslims became the villains in many American films and TV shows. The ethnic background of Arabs and the religion of Islam were portrayed as synonymous, too, Khamis said. The villain, Khamis said, is often a man with brown skin with an Arab-sounding name.
A show like “Muslim Matchmaker” flips this narrative on its head, Elhady said, by showing the ethnic diversity of Muslim Americans.
“It’s really important to have shows that show us as everyday Americans,” said Elhady, who is Egyptian and Libyan American, “but also as people that live in different places and have kind of sometimes dual realities and a foot in the East and a foot in the West and the reality of really negotiating that context.”
Before 9/11, people living in the Middle East were often portrayed to Western audiences as exotic beings, living in tents in the desert and riding camels. Women often had little to no agency in these media depictions and were “confined to the harem” — a secluded location for women in a traditional Muslim home.
This idea, Khamis said, harkens back to the term “orientalism,” which Palestinian American academic, political activist and literary critic Edward Said coined in his 1978 book of the same name.
Khamis said, pointing to countries like Britain and France, the portrayal in media of people from the region was “created and manufactured, not by the people themselves, but through the gaze of an outsider. The outsiders in this case, he said, were the colonial/imperialist powers that were actually controlling these lands for long periods of time.”
Among those who study the ways Arabs have been depicted on Western television, a common critique is that the characters are “bombers, billionaires or belly dancers,” she said.
The limits of representation
Sanaz Alesafar, executive director of Storyline Partners and an Iranian American, said she has seen some “wins” with regard to Arab representation in Hollywood, noting the success of “Mo,” “Muslim Matchmaker” and “#1 Happy Family USA.” Storyline Partners helps writers, showrunners, executives and creators check the historical and cultural backgrounds of their characters and narratives to assure they’re represented fairly and that one creator’s ideas don’t infringe upon another’s.
Alesafar argues there is still a need for diverse stories told about people living in the Middle East and the English-speaking diaspora, written and produced by people from those backgrounds.
“In the popular imagination and popular culture, we’re still siloed in really harmful ways,” she said. “Yes, we’re having these wins and these are incredible, but that decision-making and centers of power still are relegating us to these tropes and these stereotypes.”
Deana Nassar, an Egyptian American who is head of creative talent at film production company Alamiya Filmed Entertainment, said it’s important for her children to see themselves reflected on screen “for their own self image.” Nassar said she would like to see a diverse group of people in decision-making roles in Hollywood. Without that, it’s “a clear indication that representation is just not going to get us all the way there,” she said.
Representation can impact audiences’ opinions on public policy, too, according to a recent study by the Institute for Social Policy and Understanding. Results showed that the participants who witnessed positive representation of Muslims were less likely to support anti-democratic and anti-Muslim policies compared to those who viewed negative representations.
For Amer, limitations to representation come from the decision-makers who greenlight projects, not from creators. He said the success of shows like his and others are a “start,” but he wants to see more industry recognition for his work and the work of others like him.
“That’s the thing, like just keep writing, that’s all it’s about,” he said. “Just keep creating and keep making and thankfully I have a really deep well for that, so I’m very excited about the next things,” he said.