Ramadan spent abroad can be special because of how difficult it is, say Saudi students

Attendees at the first US open iftar held in Portland, Oregon in 2016. Ramadan Tent Project
Updated 27 May 2018
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Ramadan spent abroad can be special because of how difficult it is, say Saudi students

  • Fasting during Ramadan while abroad is very unique in the sense that, as with many situations in life
  • Seeing people of all nationalities from around the world joining together in prayer is a beautiful thing

JEDDAH: As Muslims around the world are fasting, Arab News got some exclusive insights into how Saudi students in particular cope with this while abroad. We found that some students welcome the added burden of being away from family, customary foods and traditions, while others who have gone back to Saudi Arabia noticed a shift in how society embraces the month of Ramadan from a social standpoint.
Nawaf Basrawi, a graduate student at the University of California, Davis, details the struggle of fasting Ramadan while abroad. “It’s not the same (fasting in the US). It’s more of an individual challenge, living in a city that doesn’t know, and frankly, doesn’t care. Temptations are not shielded from us and nobody will be reorganizing the day to lessen that burden.
“It’s not like Saudi Arabia, where we can hear the adhan for every prayer, working hours are shortened, and we can enjoy all the traditional foods with the added comfort of family and friends.
“All of this is missing when we spend it over here. We have to rely on ourselves to create that warmth and search for the right accommodation as best we can.
“We do have access to a nice Middle Eastern market that imports some traditional foods, but it’s still difficult. What’s most difficult is managing that void of not having family around.”
Fotoon Al-Rashid, an art senior studying at the University of San Francisco, gave an alternative perspective on how to approach Ramadan while living in a foreign country. Speaking to Arab News by phone, she said: “In some ways, it is like how Ramadan was during the time of the Prophet (peace be upon him) — where we live in a culture where Muslims are a minority and have many wrongful stereotypes attached to them. A Ramadan where life goes on as if it is any other day.
“The working hours don’t change, and so we must be up during the day working regular hours, going to classes, and then breaking our fast in the evening, praying, and then going to bed relatively early for work or classes again the next morning. However, I’ve learned to welcome this unique struggle of fasting Ramadan in the US.
“Ramadan should be all about solidarity with those that are less fortunate. Those unfortunate ones who are not giving up food and drink by choice, but rather by circumstance. I can understand this and I feel this more living in San Francisco during Ramadan. I have to see homeless people every day who are living their life essentially in an involuntary fasting state. I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
While some students embrace the added hardships of being away from home during Ramadan, Saudi student Naif Al-Harthi has quite a different outlook on the contrasts of spending Ramadan in Saudi Arabia as opposed to the US.
Al-Harthi, a business student who has since settled in the US after graduating from Norfolk University, spoke about Ramadan in the Kingdom with a sense of nostalgia, although from his perspective the atmosphere of this holy month in Saudi Arabia is not quite what it used to be. Speaking to Arab News he said: “Last year, I was very much looking forward to spending my first Ramadan in Jeddah, after seven years in Virginia.
“I was surprised to see how disengaged people have become from Ramadan traditions.”
He continued: “When I was a child during the 1990s, people were committed to frequent family visits, but I suppose with the new generation, things have started to change. People started celebrating Ramadan just between themselves, it seemed. Family visits started to become less frequent; even the cooking is not as authentic as how I remember. More common now is families ordering in and catering their iftar and suhoor or going out to restaurants. It took away some of that special warmth of this month for me,” he said.
Fasting during Ramadan while abroad is very unique in the sense that, as with many situations in life, perspective can often be the most important factor in efficiently managing the whole process. After hearing the different Saudi viewpoints, it is seemingly a contrast of comfort and hardship.
The connection that Ramadan should give us with the needy, with those who are suffering without a steady supply of food and drink, that particular experience, can certainly be felt more abroad than in Saudi Arabia for some.
Living in Saudi Arabia, or any other Muslim-majority country for that matter, individuals often get to sleep during the day as their working hours are reduced. In a way, it is easing the whole purpose of that burden of really feeling that solidarity of hunger and thirst with those who are less fortunate. Ramadan spent abroad, in that sense, can be really special precisely because of how difficult it is.
Going to mosques particularly is a beautiful thing. Often in the US, there are only a few in any given city, and so they serve as a magnet for all Muslims in that general area. Seeing people of all nationalities from around the world joining together in prayer is a beautiful thing. It’s a true representation of how global Islam really is.
So, taking into consideration the other added burdens of fasting while abroad, for Saudi students with the right perspective, it can lead to just as spiritual an experience, if not more, than fasting in the comfort of their home country.


Rooted in memory: How Rola Daftardar turns Saudi heritage into living art

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Rooted in memory: How Rola Daftardar turns Saudi heritage into living art

  • Ma Maison by Rola curates, produces home accessories
  • Aim to reflect Kingdom as ‘authentic, layered and artistic’

RIYADH: For Rola Daftardar, creativity is not simply about design — it is about memory, emotion and belonging.

Saudi by birth, originally from Madinah and raised in Jeddah, Daftardar carries a layered identity shaped further by her Lebanese mother. That blend of cultures, she says, taught her early on to see beauty in contrast and turn it into strength.

“My identity has always been a mix,” she said during a recent interview. “It taught me how to appreciate detail, emotion and storytelling through objects.”

From childhood, she was drawn to art and pieces with soul — objects that feel lived with rather than merely displayed. She went on to study arts, history and media, developing a philosophy that creativity is not only aesthetic but deeply emotional.

“Design is a way of sharing parts of myself,” she explained. “It’s storytelling through material, color and scent.”

Four years ago, that philosophy became Ma Maison by Rola — a brand that began as a personal creative outlet and gradually grew, season by season, into a carefully curated world of home accessories and tablescaping pieces.

Each year, she approaches her collections as chapters. “Every season has its own breath,” she said. “Every year carries a new intention.”

Her work comes most alive during Ramadan and national occasions, when gatherings take center stage and homes become spaces of shared ritual. Between winter and summer, ideas quietly bloom. But this year’s message feels especially personal.

Daftardar’s latest collection is deeply rooted in Saudi heritage, inspired by cities including Jeddah, Riyadh, AlUla and Taif — places she sees as emotional landscapes as much as geographic ones.

“With Saudi Arabia opening to the world, I felt a responsibility to present my country as I see it — authentic, layered and artistic,” she said.

Candles became the starting point of that story. More than fragrance, they are tributes to memory. Musk reflects the warmth of Jeddah, rose captures the calm elegance of Taif, and oud represents the depth and strength of Riyadh.

Hand-painted details and carefully chosen colors complete the sensory narrative.

The idea for her foldable side tables emerged during a walk along Jeddah’s corniche. Watching families gather spontaneously by the sea reminded her of the informal spaces that connect people — a feeling she also associates with historic Al-Balad.

“I wanted to create something simple and functional that carries that spirit of gathering,” she said.

The concept expanded to Diriyah — old and new — and to AlUla, where history and futurism coexist.

Yet it is tablescaping that remains closest to her heart. “I never choose pieces randomly,” she said. “I imagine the people around the table, the dishes being served, the conversations happening.”

For Daftardar, every bowl, riser and glass element forms part of a complete narrative. Every table tells a story.

Her ultimate aim is clear: to reflect Saudi Arabia as she feels it — warm, generous and deeply rooted. A place where modernity meets origin, and tradition evolves without losing its soul.

That is where Ma Maison by Rola lives — in the space between memory and modernity — and it is a story she is proud to tell.